November 4, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
“Oh what tangled webs we weave”. Wise was the author of those words and probably intimately familiar with the “art” of deception, for there exists no sharper biting pain than that of infidelity. As human beings we are deeply emotional…
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The death of a loved one, whether sudden or anticipated, is perhaps the most trying of circumstances. The absence of detailed funeral and burial instructions can add unnecessary stress and turmoil for grieving family members. Most people have a very…
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The death of a loved one can be a tremendous burden, both emotionally and financially, on a grieving family. This period of grief, however, can be soothed by a little careful planning in advance. Preplanning for one’s own death may…
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Death is a time of deep emotional grief as well as a time of careful contemplation when laying a loved one to rest. It is a time of difficult decisions and heart-felt remembrance which requires careful planning and consideration. Cremation…
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It’s a rather sterile sounding word- partner. Almost like the folks that need to use the word partner are not entitled to a better word, a cozier word, a more “intimate” word. Is my tongue lodged in my cheek right…
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It’s not easy to admit when we are wrong. Especially not when our core beliefs are threatened and our pride is hurt. A certain degree of humility must be learned in order to concede an argument. This humility only comes…
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The thought of writing a love letter may seem archaic with our “hurry up and go” modern world. But if you consider that love letters were a significant means of communicating for our parents and grandparents and the generations before…
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Choosing the right words to console a grieving friend or family member can be very difficult and sometimes awkward. The level of comfort that you have in expressing your emotions in general will be an indicator of how you will…
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February 11, 2015 Friends and Peers
Apologies are awkward and undeniably difficult. If you find it easy to say “I’m sorry” either you lack sincerity or you are used to apologizing for everything under the sun.The key to apologizing to a good friend is to first…
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January 17, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Life goes on. I know it sounds way too simple but it simply is the truth. Whether your relationship is salvageable or damaged beyond repair life will most certainly go on. What you make of this “new” life will be…
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The key to being accepted as gay or lesbian is to first being accepted as a decent, honest, trustworthy individual regardless of sexual orientation. If someone can’t stand to be around you because you are a liar, a cheat or…
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November 7, 2014 Crisis Support
Cremation is becoming an increasingly popular method of handling the remains of a deceased loved one. Not only is cremation a more economic choice, it also affords more options for funeral and memorial services as well as interment, more commonly…
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You will recognize her instantly. She’s the one leaning against the bar, holding her bottle of beer by the neck, casually peeling off its label. Her clothes speak of her attitude- confident, slightly cocky and mysteriously sexy. She doesn’t follow…
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I’m sure everyone has heard or read about the lesbian couple in California who recently exchanged wedding vows after waiting for fifty five years. Their story is an inspiration and testimony to lesbian relationships as a whole. We want to…
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We’re coming to get you Barbara! And we’re bringing our U-Haul. Lesbian singles? Is there really such a thing? Honestly, how long do we remain on that “list”? The problem with meeting lesbian singles is that they may only be…
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I’m sure everyone has heard or read about the lesbian couple in California who recently exchanged wedding vows after waiting for fifty five years. Their story is an inspiration and testimony to lesbian relationships as a whole. We want to…
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We’re coming to get you Barbara! And we’re bringing our U-Haul. Lesbian singles? Is there really such a thing? Honestly, how long do we remain on that “list”? The problem with meeting lesbian singles is that they may only be…
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Women are vulnerable. That is the premise of any relationship and especially a lesbian relationship. The simple truth istwo women make for two times the drama. And God, do we love drama. I don’t think we’re satisfied without it actually….
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We are women who have passed through time resilient in a common quest to exist as individuals, unique in our expression and thought and yet common with the cause of female identity and purpose. The landscape of our minds and…
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Falling in love is blissful; it is a time of abandonment when all caution is thrown aside for the excitement, the exquisite joy of merely falling… But now that you’ve landed in yet another unfulfilling, unadventurous, boring white bread without…
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If you are a lesbian looking for love the first thing you must consider is the place in which you are looking for it. As simple as it might sound, it is none-the-less a fact that lesbians tend to get…
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There are certain essential elements in any relationship, regardless of whether that relationship is heterosexual or homosexual. Factors such as trust and honesty, faithfullness and sincerety, make up the foundation of every successful partnership. But still, a lesbian relationship is…
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