Is it unromantic to choose your own engagement ring? The thought of the love of your life asking you to spend the rest of your life with him is in itself euphoric. The moment of becoming engaged is breath taking…
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Do soulmates exist? It’s ironic, but years ago I would never have thought it possible for a person to have a soul-mate wandering around in circles while waiting to meet them. I am not sure how soul-mates exist while they…
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March 8, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
The book that holds the secrets of staying in love must be filed in the same place as the book that holds the secrets for raising a child. I do not recall ever seeing either one in the library. It…
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September 24, 2014 Crisis Support
While most people tend to think that tragic or catastrophic events will never happen to them, invariably the reality of being wrong catches us unprepared. Since we tend to believe in happy endings, we tend to think we will never…
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Should rape victims be interviewed by members of the same sex? We, as a society, have come to see around us that the standard stereotyping of “the good guys” and the bad guys” has crossed all gender, racial, and ethnic…
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Is blood thicker than water? Yes, but that does not mean that it should be, it just is. It is a sense of entitlement that we feel towards our blood relatives when they have struck gold or millions in the…
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How to handle dreams and nightmares after abuse Ironic, isn’t it, that we survive the actual abuse and manage to set out on some form of “normal” life. The only problem is that “normal” has no parameters and is totally…
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Don’t let my PTSD stop you from thinking I love you… How many times have you wanted to just scoop that someone special you love and hold them so tight that they can see beyond your pain and simply know…
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