After thirty years working with couples, as well as my own dark skeletons of the past effecting my relationships, I have learned immensely from listening to women. I have my own un-scientific theory, based solely on experience. Approximately eighty percent…
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Anger is an emotion we all experience at some point, and everyone’s initial reaction to that is basically bad. Relationships have been permanently destroyed because of anger mismanagement. How does that happen, why does it happen and what we can…
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There are many theories and beliefs when it comes to the ability to lie well. For instance, the majority believes that a liar will not look you in the eyes while telling a fib. Or perhaps the way one tilts…
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Persuasion is a form of influencing others and guiding them to adopt attitudes, ideas and actions that otherwise they would not, by means of applying rational or emotional strategies to coerce them. Persuasion is so deeply rooted in our daily…
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“A sense of humor…is needed armor. Joy in one’s heart and laughter on the lips is a sign that deep down the person has a pretty good grasp on life.” – Hugh Sidney Humor In relationships is a vital key…
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Our inner dialogue is most often a reflection of core beliefs and habits. How we self-communicate is as important as communicating with others. Internal dialogue, aka that little voice inside, can either be your best friend or your worst enemy….
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Words can be so powerful. We have words that are uplifting and positive, negative and downright offensive to some. But think for just a minute. How powerful are words truly? I mean, it is great to hear someone give a…
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The most important thing to remember when you’re trying to agonizingly decide to tell a secret or not is the fact that there had to be some initial reason why the factoid was meant to be a secret in the…
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The Power of Words It’s one of those cliches we’ve heard so often we think they must be true: “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.” But in reality, we know that words can…
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Do you like to flirt? Like to have spicy little chats with new people? Enjoy meeting people from all walks of life? Then this job is perfect for you…LOL sounds like a fun job! or a Really bad latenight commercial….
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To be able to have a successful marriage couple must be grown up emotionally. Marriage is for the mentally matured. The blending of two different personalities requires emotional stability. The couple needs to be calm when problems develop. It important…
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As individuals, we may spend many years dealing with the fallout of negative statements presented by adults and others in childhood. These statements can range from mild to moderate. A parent can tell us that we are “Way to loud”…
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Anyone who has a baby under the age of 1, is pregnant, or plans to have a baby in the future needs to know about RSV. Respiratory Syncytial Virus is a very serious illness and is highly contagious. For an…
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It probably isn’t a good idea to tell a relative they’re too fat because the chances are they already realise they have a weight problem and hearing it said to their face just makes them feel even worse about it….
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I have mixed emotions on this issue. Sexual abuse covers a lot of areas. Did the abuse happen as an adult or as a child. This is a factor that will affect the way he/she feels about what happened. Either…
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I lived in an unhealthy relationship for over 11 years. No self confidence is probably what kept me there. I should have left him the very first time he ever laid his hands on me. Shortly after I went back,…
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When my oldest daughter, my 2nd child was 4 months old I found out that I was pregnant AGAIN. It takes a minimum of 1-2 yrs for a woman’s body to fully recover from childbirth. So, as you can imagine,…
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