If you listen to people like Tom Leykis, there is no such thing as a “good lover”. We should all be cads, jumping from one physical encounter to the next, never settling down, never committing. However, ask most people and…
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“Should the Federal Government set a national age for sexual consent in teens?” My answer to that question is no. Let’s just shift into common sense mode here for a few moments while we consider the intent of our founding…
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There are many types of relationships in this world and there are also many forms of intimacy that they require and enjoy. The one thing that is true of all relationships, though, is that there must be some intimacy in…
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A good idea is just to look at photo albums of your romance over the years and reminiscing about the past. In our hectic, fast-paced world, sometimes we move so fast and so furious forward, we forget about the tender…
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In 1999, I visited what would eventually become my alma mater for an overnight orientation. During this visit, I found myself drawn to another incoming student. I will call him Kay. There was something about him that I had to…
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The cold lifeless days of winter give way to warmer more vibrant days. You and your partner may feel anxious to get outdoors for romance after a long winter of being cooped up. Although a cruise or other travels around…
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Breaking up is tough anytime, but when it happens around the holidays it can be especially hard to get through. You probably have many memories of holidays past that feel like they may overwhelm you at any moment. Holidays can…
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What a loaded question this is. We who write on either side should also state if we are Liberal, Conservative or of another label because that would more than likely explain why we are voting on each side. To begin…
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Why Young People’s Approach to Sex Often Differs Sex can be very different when we are young than when we are older because our perspectives are likely to be different, we are far more experienced and mature and our expectations…
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Who would have thought it would have come to a break-up?” You are sincerely going to miss your boyfriend and you want your last night together to be like a moving on party for the both of you, so you…
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Everyone has their own ideas on what makes a man sexy. That is natural, and it makes us individuals. However, there are a few things that we all find sexy; those things that draw our eyes and make it impossible…
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Ηoliday loneliness can become impossible to handle after a break up. During a time where you are supposed to be happy celebrating, you feel more lonely than ever, even if you are invited to several gatherings and parties. To prevent the…
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If you have low self esteem in the beginning of a relationship, you will have it throughout your relationship, even when your partner is telling you how pretty and smart you are to them. However, if you have broken up…
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When speaking of sex, the word fun should always follow in front of or behind somewhere. If not, you’re not doing something right! There are lots of fun things you can try to keep the bedroom fun and exciting and…
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We must first change our thoughts on the word and condition of a “break up.” Perhaps we have outgrown the relationship and it is just time to carry on or move on. Life is filled with transitions. So, consider this…
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I think there are many reasons why there isn’t more interracial dating; but by understanding these reasons, individuals can choose whether or not such dating is right for them. Society and culture form the ways in which we interact with…
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Something that always throws my mind is… Why does someone you love strike you? What pleasure do they gain from anything that leaves a physical or mental scar? This is a no brainer, there’s no gain… Only pain…I can’t tell…
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Whether it is your heart being broken or you letting go of another, a break up can be devastating and can feel as though time is standing still. At one time two paths that once crossed perfectly reach a point…
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There are five foolproof steps that any woman (or enlightened man) can take to recover from a broken heart. One- Stock up on pints of ice cream, chocolate, and pizza. There’s nothing like a sugar high to get you happy…
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People look at us rather oddly. For some reason they cannot connect us. If you see the two of us standing apart from each other in a group you would never match up wedding rings. There probably aren’t two people…
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What you really need to remember, when you feel that your heart is smashed to smithereens, is that there is no quick fix for a broken heart, it takes time. Broken hearts can happen in many different ways. The love…
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There really can be classy ways you can end a break-up and they don’t involved a restraining order or you and your soon to be ex ending up on the evening news or on an episode of cops. Remembering that…
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Thousands of articles about getting over a break-up have already been written. Some provide useful information while others can frankly be labeled as ‘nonsense.’ The simple fact is that getting over a break-up can never be simple and structured. A…
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Soon after breaking up with you has your ex boyfriend done the absurd by seeing another lady? This is perhaps extremely hard for you If you’re still in love with your ex boyfriend. It is going to appear this way…
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When we are in a loving relationship with someone, we identify ourselves as being one with our partners. We never imagine that there could be a break-up and when it does happen devastation sets in causing a broken heart. You…
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Abuse in any relationship is unhealthy for the giver as well as the receiver. It happens to men as well as women. Physical abuse is easy to see and for the one being abused easy to explain away. Most of…
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Why would anyone ask for an engagement ring to be returned to them after breaking up with their intended? An engagement ring symbolizes both a promise to commit to one another exclusively and also a unique moment in time for…
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Sometimes relationships blossom and flower, other times they lose their sheen and begin to wilt; but other times they just seem to sort of hang around and the people in them don’t seem to know if things are going well,…
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He dumped me. She left. I. Am. Heartbroken. We’ve all been there. The man or woman we invested our time, money, energy, efforts, and yes, heart in so fully has decided it’s time to call it quits. And now we…
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The holidays are a joyous time to spend with families and friends. For some people, the holidays can be a time of loneliness and deep depression. During the holidays, this is the time when we think of the past and…
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