The topic title is not clear. I will assume, you are speaking of ethnic hair or African American hair in your description of “short black hair”. This title is ambiguous. So, we must first determine the texture of the hair. The…
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There are many classic and trendy hairstyles that flatter the African American woman. Most of today’s stars accentuate their hair with added pieces of hair to add fullness. Super model, Tyra Banks chose hair extensions because constant styling with heated…
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October 18, 2015 Style and Beauty - Other
We reach for a magazine because the cover is appealing to our eyes and then the stories may capture our attention, but the focal point is on that face, the fashion and the silhouette that graces the cover. Magazine publishers…
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October 16, 2015 Skin and Body
The most effective way to appear taller faster is to have good posture. Your mom probably has always told you to hold your shoulders back and hold your head up. My grandmother , always reminded me to stop looking down…
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October 12, 2015 Communication
Judging others is akin to believing you are better than someone else. A judgmental comment may be used to deflate someone’s confidence or make them feel very uncomfortable. Their are people who convince themselves their comment is constructive criticism. and…
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There are many hairstyles that are complimentary to bangs.Through out the past few decades, we have the style of bangs with the short Pixie style cut. Later, bangs were sported with the Pageboy or Dutch boy style cut, very similar…
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Animal print seems to never go out of style. Each fall season, we once again walk on the wild side. Animal print is juxtapose with all of the luscious fall colors and sensuous suede fabrics. Red is stunning with zebra…
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Your work on making old clothes look new must begin very early in this endeavor. The very first thing you must do, when purchasing any item of clothing is to look at the label for washing or care instructions to…
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Dealing with judgmental people is often taxing on our spirits and may challenge our self esteem Perchance, we can not always avoid these judgmental people. Yet, we can deal with them in a cordial,dismissive manner. Simply, showing non interest in…
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Only children are not spoiled. Only fruit, vegetables and stale bread spoils. It is true an only child is given all of the attention by one or both parents. Some parents may make the conscious decision only to have one…
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Communicating our disapproval or disagreement may come in the form of sarcastic remarks. Sarcasm is used as a rebuttal and may often be diffused with comments such as,” I was just joking.”. Anytime the comment is cutting or contemptuous towards us,…
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I’m approaching the half century mark and I should know something about family. I should know the mechanics, the frame work. Who does what? the word “dysfunction” to some, creates imagery of an abusive, intolerant families, drug abuse and father…
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Take two steps backwards. Do not enter. Do not pass go. These, self doubts are played over and over in the mind of an insecure person. Well, you are worthy and you may enter and you can go as far …
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The teens are enthralled in listening to their iPods and yes, they seem to be oblivious to anyone or anything that is going on in the outside world. Many husbands after a hard day’s work would rather slumber, watch a…
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The very first key to communicating is listening. I mean really listening to the complaints and even the nagging. I bet you are saying to yourself, who wants to hear all of that? The very first time you listen and…
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Basic black and pearls was the mantra of the well dressed chic woman,imitating the style of fashion Icon, such as Coco Chanel. A strand of pearls, whether real or faux can make any black dress look expensive. A classic heel…
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I’m overjoyed when cooler weather prevails. I no longer have to worry about flabby arms.Sleeves actually accentuate my ample arms. everyone knows darker colors for winter months are worn more as a camouflage. , but you don’t have to go…
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Everyone knows black is a flattering color for most figures. However,most neutral and warm winter colors offer a silhouette that will flatter as well. Keep it simple. A basic line chemise or straight skirt teamed with a classic blazer will…
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What is really going on? Did this trend of very young girls wearing sexually revealing and suggestive clothing start with Brittainy Spears? I won’t blame this problem solely on any one person. I will say the advertisers seek to exploit,…
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An engagement ring is considered a binding contractual agreement. The contract for marriage, has been called off. All bets are off. Some women may feel they are deserving of the ring, because of a broken heart or the embarrassment of…
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I had chosen to call the role reversal between my grandmother and myself, “The Caregivers Circle.” Many times, I wished I had not been placed in this role reversal of taking care of my grandmother, bathing her and getting her…
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The jewel hued tones are rich and exuberant. When you think of purple consider the deep alternative found in amethyst or aubergine. These colors exude royalty and add sophistication and class to your outfit.The same is true for the color…
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What is unconditional love, and more importantly, who is deserving of this love? Most will say, they love their children unconditionally, just as God loves us. There are no expectations in unconditional love, it is not merited or earned. In…
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Graduating is an achievement,that most want to celebrate and recall for years to come. Decorating a graduation cap should be done tastefully. The tassel or cord is the biggest accessory on a graduation cap. Some high school students may choose…
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Anger is a strong emotion and a by-product of fear and denial. Relationships hold a multitude of emotions. A love relationship is usually built on trust, loyalty and understanding. If any of these components are missing or we fear they…
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The best way to respond to negative family gossip is not to respond to it, at all. Certainly, this type of betrayal is offensive to you and may form a great divide between you and that family member. The first mode…
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Body wash is offered in an array of fragrances and moisturizers, tailored to fit every skin care need. The biggest advantage to the new body washes is the hygienic appeal of no other body or skin coming in contact with…
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March 29, 2015 Friends and Peers
This topic, reeled me in and spoke directly to me. I was misinformed, because I believed , I had many friends to call upon. Primarily, I believed myself to be a true friend. As the holidays draw near, I have…
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March 29, 2015 Friends and Peers
I love him, because he first loved me. Loving others, more than yourself is a perfect example of Christ. Of course, it is difficult, if not impossible in some cases to love others, more than you love yourself. I admit,…
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Parents aren’t given a parenting guide or manual to make certain that their children become mature, responsible acting adults. Children will eventually grow into adults and make their own decisions and sometime make blatant mistakes in their life.Parents are not…
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