Communication

Busyness can easily become a hurdle in one’s me time.  Anyone, parent or not, needs a certain amount of me time for a well balanced life and peace of mind.  Life is too short to put yourself last.  Take care…
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Men and women differ in how they talk but also, in how they listen. Most men, after hearing the same litany over and over again, tune out. So, women need to learn to choose what and how often to complain…
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How guys think? Some might ask if men ever think. Since I am a guy I cannot agree that men never think. But, men do have a tendency to think differently than women. One must proceed cautiously because we should…
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Men check out women all the time. This isn’t a secret. While some might be more discreet about it than others, they all do it. Men look at women. This isn’t a huge surprise or it shouldn’t be. It isn’t…
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Does this ever happen to you? You make a plan for yourself, after work, to accomplish a bunch of things around your house and then have a good two hours to hang out and relax before it is time to…
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Dr John Grey has made a life’s work and a couple of million in the process of telling us how relationships work. From the original Men Are From Mars book spawned a whole litter of books each proclaiming to make…
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Though I am going to write from an African’s perspective, yet I would like to start from the story of the very first woman, the mother of all. Eve was seen and accepted by Adam as the bones of my…
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Men and women are completely different animals. They don’t understand each other because they think differently. The sooner people realise this, the sooner they can accept it. Particularly in a relationship, men find it difficult to understand why a simple…
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“Men are from mars and women are from Venus!” Somebody really hit the right spot in this quote. There are lots of things men secretly wish women knew, understood and followed, what stops them from freely expressing it? Women perhaps!…
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Alica and Louise found seats at the bar. At the end of that same bar sat a handsome and eligible man. Almost immediately he began to cast glances in what seemed to be Alica’s direction. Alica, though, after a few…
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You hear a lot of women say men are easier to have as friends. It makes you wonder, if you’re a woman, why this might be true. Is it because women are catty? Is it because men just aren’t expecting…
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Stop right there and read this article! It may save your relationship. Probably not, but at least it will make you smile, and perhaps get to know men a little better. I’m currently in a happy relationship. Here’s what I…
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Why men don’t understand women?The simple answer, as if there was anything simple about it, is: Evolution. As far as our DNA is concerned, we have left the caves a few minutes ago. Deep inside our brain the wiring is…
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Being a wife of a man who is far from the most sensitive man in the world, there are many things that I wish he knew about me. However, as we’ve gotten closer and closer, I have realized that there…
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First, I would like to say excuse my grammar because I will not at all time write in standard english. It will be readable but not always standard english. In my previous article I spoke about the approach, and I…
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Oh come on guys! Surely you can all do better! Generally speaking, girls love it when guys declare their love for them. In other words, what I am saying is that, they like guys to be straightforward not a coward….
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A guy thinks about different things just like gals. I am not writing for all guys but I believe I can talk about a few. Guys are always comparing each other. They look at the other guy and size him…
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Believe me girls we desperately want to understand. Men, just like women spend countless hours in deep philosophical debate in bars and on lakes on the subject. “What did she mean by that? What does that look mean? What did…
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Liar, Liar: There Are Lessons To Be Learned In the Lies of Men You’re foraging through the dresser drawer and come across another woman’s phone number. He tells you that it is nothing and that you are being paranoid. Your…
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How do men think? That’s assuming that men actually think. Assuming that they do, they use their noggins in an entirely different way than women use their brains. This article is not an opportunity for gender-prejudice, as of course, there…
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It is no secret that women mystify, confuse and excite men. It is no secret that a woman can turn a man into a clueless mountain of mush. It seems to be a secret among men however, that they are…
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things that men should know about women OK, you asked for it, but before i begin, let me say this. This is something that i truly believe because of what all of my female friends(past and present)(and yes i mean…
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Here is the unedited version of what we wish you knew. 10) Don’t ask us to go shopping with you. It’s not that we don’t like to shop with you, we just don’t like the way you shop. When men…
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There’s an old saying, “No one will ever win the war between the sexes, because there’s too much fraternizing with the enemy.” This article from my book,“Searching for Perfection” asks, “Must this war continue forever? Or can we find some…
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After having the misfortune to choose a student house with a severe damp/mould/bugs problem, complete with unco-operative landlords, I moved in with my boyfriend, who lives in a much larger, (potentially) nicer student house. The problem? He lives in what…
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Women can cry for all kinds of reasons. Often it’s because they’re sad of course. Other times it can be the opposite – when they cry tears of joy. I don’t think men tend to cry so often from joy…
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I’ve cried for many sorts of reasons, a few of those times have been greatly misinterpreted by other people. Once when I was at school a few of us were mucking around when a couple of friends were having a…
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Death Unveiled True Feelings A common story between all mothers and they’re best friends is to unite their children hoping one day they would get married. Do you agree? This is exactly the kind of awkward situation they put their…
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Growing up in the Midwest, I was socialized in much the same way that most boys my age were. However, I didn’t realize until much later in life the effect that they had on me during my “formidable years”. Despite…
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Staying positive is a deliberate choice; you must make the decision you will stay positive and with it a mindset and a commitment to stay that way no matter what transpires. Being positive means staying optimistic. If you desire to…
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