What is Love
Why is love so hard so define, so hard to understand, so hard to recognize, so hard to find, and so hard to keep? We need love as surely as we need air and water and food, yet it seems…
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Author Archive: Bruce W. Coffman
Being Gay and Recieving Acceptance
Being gay and receiving acceptance begins with respecting yourself. If you accept and respect yourself and are comfortable with your sexuality, you will probably find that a need for acceptance for being gay is much less important than a need…
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Is it better to have a Large or Small Group of Friends – Small
August 10, 2015 Friends and Peers
Though some might want to have a large group of friends, it is actually better to have a small group. Your definition of a friend, of course, will determine your preference. But if you’re talking about real, true friends who…
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Why Designer Fragrances are so Popular
The answer is quality. While a fair amount of the popularity of designer fragrances is owed to marketing and promotion along with snob appeal and the desire to emulate celebrities, the deciding factor is the fact that they are better….
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Avoid Prevent and Treat Chapped Lips
1) Adhere to what some say is an old wive’s tale about licking your lips. According to Mayo Clinic dermatologist Lawrence Gibson, M.D. in an article on MayoClinic.com, “Saliva evaporates quickly, leaving lips drier than before you licked them.” 2)…
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For Men how to Pick the Perfect Pair of Jeans
The right pair of jeans can make a big difference in the way you look and feel. A good pair of jeans can take you from casual Friday to a night on the town. Since we guys don’t usually like…
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Should a Dying Person Choose his own Funeral Rituals – Yes
A dying person should choose his or her own funeral rituals if he wants to. It should be 100% up to the individual if this is something that is important to him or not. Some will undoubtedly have strong preferences…
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Is Suicide ever Justified – No
To make the statement that suicide is justified under any circumstances would be irresponsible, reckless and dangerous. That it is sometimes understandable is a completely different issue since there are circumstances such as when someone is suffering with a painful…
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Buyers Guide to Consignment Clothing Stores
Buying clothing from consignment stores is an excellent way to pick up stylish, name brand clothing in excellent condition while saving a lot of money. Following a few simple guidelines will have you dressed to the nines for pennies on…
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Style on a Budget Consignment Shopping
Maximizing your style on a budget is as easy as knowing where to shop. The malls and high-end department stores are great for window-shopping and seeing the latest trends, styles and colors. However, they are not the places to actually…
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Positive Emotional Effects of Body Fragrance
Fragrance is an often overlooked accessory. Just as completing your look with the perfect handbag, jewelry and other accessory items can make you look and feel better, so can the application of your favorite body fragrance. The emotional benefits of…
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How to Create a Spa Experience at Home
Start with the knowledge that the spa experience is all about pampering yourself, indulgence and relaxation. With those three elements in mind, you can create your very own spa experience in your very own home. Pampering Yourself Start with a…
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Are Parents Responsible for how their Children Act as Adults – Yes
Having to choose a side on this debate is a little tricky, because the question itself raises the issue of nature versus nurture in human development and behavior. Also, you have to consider the definition of “responsible.” Parents are definitely…
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One Night Stand Etiquette
The stereotypical image of the aftermath of the one-night stand is a lovelorn woman awaking amidst a pile of rumpled sheets, looking around wide-eyed and bewildered, wondering where her Prince Charming has gone as the front door slams shut and…
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Does what you Wear Reflect who you are
February 23, 2015 Skin and Body
What you wear is absolutely a reflection of who you are. Some will mistakenly take this to mean what you wear defines who you are, but there is a huge difference in those two statements. Take the example of two…
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How to Dress like a Queen on a Paupers Budget
January 5, 2015 Style and Beauty - Other
Study, study, study. Research, research, research. Those are the first steps in dressing like a queen on a pauper’s budget. Study the fashion magazines for the latest trends and hottest looks and learn who the top designers are. Research current…
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Why Snow White Skin has become the Latest must have Accessory
November 18, 2014 Skin and Body
The snow white look was big in the 80s as a status symbol. It was often said that the lack of a tan showed the world at a glance that you did not have to labor outdoors. It was snobby…
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Coach Handbags are Worth the Money – Agree
A Coach brand handbag is absolutely worth the investment if one cares at all about quality and style. If not, drop on into your local Wal-Mart and pick up whatever they have to offer, which is usually about a hundred…
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Being Gay is not a Choice – No
As a gay person, the very question of whether the attitudes of men contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism infuriates me. It infuriates me because I no more chose being gay than I chose to have brown hair…
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Being Gay is not a Choice – No
As a gay person, the very question of whether the attitudes of men contribute to women choosing a life of lesbianism infuriates me. It infuriates me because I no more chose being gay than I chose to have brown hair…
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Views on Homophobia
Homophobia is nothing more than a form of prejudice, and all prejudice is rooted in ignorance. For homophobia to be truly eradicated, the ignorant among us will have to do that which they have been unwilling to do for so…
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