Naysayers and skeptics believe that if you lose someone they cannot possibly be the right one. A famous phrase is ” if it was meant to be, it would be.” I am going to argue the other side of the…
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Being friends isn’t what we do in our situation. Too much water under the bridge so to speak. But getting along with each other amicably is important. It’s easy of course to say that now. It took years, and I…
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Relationships tend to come and go. We get emotionally attached to our significant other, and many people need a lot of time, and support to get over an ex. It takes people at least a good couple of months to…
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How to get a man to marry you? What an interesting question. Well ladies there is only one answer to that question, meet his needs. When I say meet his needs, what I am really saying is this. If you…
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From the eyes of a woman flirting is much different than the eyes of a man. It’s not about cheesy pick-up lines or a million and one compliments about how we look. To truly master the art of flirting you…
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When people end a relationship, there are a variety of ways to recover from it. How you come to recover depends on each individual. Not how you might recover from a relationship, but as well as how long it takes…
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What do we mean by “love”?  Could there ever be love, a connection, a depth of feeling between two people, without physical attraction? Clearly the answer is “yes”. Plenty of old couples, such as my late grandparents, love each other,…
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Q. Should I give myself time to heal before jumping to another relationship? I just broke up with my boyfriend, and there are others telling me that they like me, and one saying he loves me. He felt stupid telling…
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There she is…the perfect girl; gorgeous, funny and great to be around. Only one problem, does she think of you the same way you think of her? How can you make that special girl love you? Well look no further…
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Flirting is like a fine wine, it only gets better with age. It’s not going to be easy at first, but neither is making wine for the first time. All you need to do is take it slow. The art…
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I once asked a friend what he thought the most important ability or skill one had to have in order to maintain a relationship. He thought it over for a minute, and responded that it was a willingness to make…
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The term “toxic relationship” is subjective, both in definition and limit for each person. The amount and duration of what individuals, will and have tolerated, varies. Awareness can be clouded, the inner self may be denied, and personal goals conceivably…
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He does something so stupid you can’t believe it. What do you do? Ignore what he did or love him in spite of it? There are things that annoy us and make us want to scream. Then there are the…
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As the old saying goes “Breaking up is hard to do” and it is true. Many times we stay in relationships longer than we should because we are just trying to avoid breaking up with the other person. Most times…
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You and your boyfriend have been together for a magical year and three months now. You two love each other and are inseparable. He seems to get you and you really, really like that. Time is passing by and you…
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When all you long to hear is a marriage proposal from the man in your life, do try to engineer it so that the expected proposal falls either on your birthday, Christmas or Valentine’s day. After all you can’t predict…
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A stunningly beautiful woman walks toward you at a crowded party. You know, with a little finesse and a bit of luck, you could make her swoon. If at this point, any kind of a line usually escapes your lips,…
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The writer has had plenty of experience with what she likes to refer to as “clingons”. You know, those ones you meet and begin a relationship with because they seem great at first, but after a while become unbearable. Unfortunately, it seems…
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The question has a simple straight forward answer; you can’t make anyone fall in love with you. However, you can help develop someone’s feelings for you and consequently they may fall in love with you later on. Many people like…
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Some people choose to break up over a meal. If you choose to do so, you may want to consider the following tips. Make something that is easy on the stomach Tension can be high for both parties when there…
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Most of us have dreams of meeting that one special person and falling in love, to go on and live happily ever after with him or her. However, most of us have also experienced the incredible pain of heartbreak at…
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