Infidelity is a devastating blow to any intimate relationship. Statistics show that 30 to 60 percent of married couples has an extramarital affair during the course of their marriages, with men being near the top of the percentage ladder. Infidelity…
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Having an affair is never just about one person and it can never just affect one person. Whether your spouse knows about your affair or not, their life is being affected by it. How unfair it would be to never…
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I have gone and done it, turned a corner and made a decision that can only be considered a life-changing event, a rite of passage: I deactivated my Facebook account. This is not as simple as you might think. There…
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Lust. Escape. Wishful thinking. Call it what you will, sexual fantasy is something all of us will experience and indulge in throughout our lives, and the idea that such a deeply personal, and often satisfying experience could be construed as…
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Forgiveness may help you put trust back in your spouse, but it does not make you forget.  I do not think a cheating spouse should be forgiven.  There are too many factors that come into play.  This is a person…
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What is considered morally right or morally wrong, that is what is considered ethics. There is a very fine line between what is ethical and what is unethical. In order to really decide whether it is okay to read our…
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Virtual relationships interfere with the continued development of real life relationships if they are not kept in perspective and thus potentially damage real life relationships. They take little effort to continue, but take time and energy away from a real…
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Virtual relationships sadly far outweigh real life relationships. With the advent of myspace and facebook came a new age of friendships. It is considered absolutely normal to have friends that you have never actually met face to face. Websites such…
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When contemplating whether or not to confess your affair to your spouse consider the consequences. Infidelity is often a double-edged sword. It causes damage from all sides and the decision to reveal it is personal. On one hand, if a…
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In a world dominated by Myspace, Facebook, Match.com, E-Harmony, and Hotornot, how can we not see that the world of dating is slowly evolving into a horse of another color? The virtual relationship is slowly swallowing and ingesting the reality…
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Years ago I became friends with a woman that I met at my workplace. We were close friends but not best friends. She was seven years older and we both were in our twenties. She had a great sense of…
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Having an affair cannot only hurt one person it can hurt many. Having an affair is one of the most self-centered acts that a person can do to hurt others. First and foremost if a man or woman is married…
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In a way, yes. But perhaps the term ‘taking precedence over’ is what I have a problem with. Yes, it is becoming more common for people to meet over the Internet and date that way. My brother got married a…
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Affairs are certainly not grounded in reality-and here’s why.  Number one, for any romance to have strength, there has to be a normal getting to know each other period, unfettered from previous partners and romantic situations.  There can be lots…
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To cheat or not to cheat, that is the question. Or is the answer just a simple one, if you are going to cheat why get married at all why not remain single and just play the field. It is…
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