Marriage is a traditional joining of men and women; more recently with rights being given to same sex couples to marry and have the same joys and pains. While this is a step in the right direction marriage isn’t for…
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In my culture, having more than one wife was the right only preserved for the Tribal Chief before the ‘White Men’ arrived on the shores of my country. Now, with the introduction of cash economy, this privilege and concept has…
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For the past 7 years I have lived in a thriving polygyny-relationship with two wonderful and understanding women. In non-technical language, I have two wives. I do want to point out that not everyone is able to live in a…
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When you’re in a relationship you’re making a commitment to be honest, loyal, faithful and respectful to your partner. Both you and your partner are taking the risk to put your heart on the line to conquer a sense of…
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Individual women and feminists have not single-handedly rendered marriage unfashionable. Certainly, like men, and as human beings, women want love, sex, stability, companionship, and many other benefits promised by marital union. As far as I know, these were never the…
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There aren’t many people who marry with the intent to ever break their marriage vows by having an affair, but it does happen. In fact, if your marriage has been hit by this train wreck, you are far from alone….
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When your partner has been unfaithful to you, whether you decide to stay married or not, it can have lasting psychological effects.  It makes it difficult to ever trust your partner again.  It can even make it hard to ever…
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Marshall McLuhan spent his life preaching that the medium is the message.  McLuhan argued that the sheer existence of the light-bulb “allowed people to create spaces during nighttime that would otherwise be enveloped by darkness. The light bulb,” he continued,…
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The word soulmate is seriously overused and I think it has lost much of its impact because of how liberally it is sprinkled about. Listen to your average group of teengirls and they will eventually start talking about their boyfriend,…
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The unbelievable cruelty that infidelity brings to the injured person is incalculable. A normal well adjusted person, male or female, can become a psychological wreck. Every phone call your partner answers becomes a possible threat. Old friends who laugh at…
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Statistics say that marriages in general are doomed to fail. First marriages only have a 40% chance of surviving. Second marriages have a 20% chance of surviving. However, all marriages can work. It isn’t easy and often comes with a…
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Psychological damage unfaithfulness can cause. The psychological damage that can be caused from someone being unfaithful can be devastating. Although there are many different personalities or types of women, some of the effects are the same. One of the things…
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Do people who cheat really deserve a second chance?  Do you risk going through the same hurt again?  If I knew for sure that my husband or someone I was dating was unfaithful in the relationship it would be over…
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Sex in a marriage is both an obligation as well as an act of love. There is nothing about loving someone that comes easily. Love involves showing love when one does not necessarily feel the love. Love is about selfless…
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Two wrongs won’t make anyone right isn’t that a fair description of cheating. The parties involved in an affair outside marriage hurt the other partners whether they know or not. They hurt each other even though most seem to think stolen…
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Infidelity is, unfortunately, a common problem in relationships, whether a couple are married or not. Also common is somebody suspecting their partner of cheating, even if they have no physical proof. But, how can one be more certain of their…
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Being unfaithful, or “affair challenged” as one therapist has so aptly put it, is as grave a disease to the heart and mind as any physical disease is to the body.  Breaking promises and vows that should be held sacred…
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Men do seem to cheat more than women when it comes to relationships. Men seem to be less emotional and therefore less attached to the women that they are with. This means that they are able to have an affair…
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