For most women, finding out your husband has cheated on you is a very serious blow; and in very many ways. Most feel betrayed, ugly and stupid for not seeing the signs, or recognizing that something was going on. Also,…
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ME AND WHOMEVER I’m going to write about me personally, so put the kids to bed and tell your husband/wife to do some shopping. I’ve been fortunate to have a number of love affairs; I’m not talking about one night…
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If you’re married and you have an affair, and either get caught or admit to it, and your marriage somehow manages to survive, rest assured that your affair will never be forgotten. It might be assumed that the only person…
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The first thing to do is not to overreact.  More importantly know that an affair is really happening.  Many times, a husband may jump to some pretty strong conclusions if his wife just talks to some other man.  Jealousies can…
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Don’t kid yourself. As a matter of fact, be as honest with yourself as you can be. NO!..It is not possible to have an affair without anyone getting hurt. Sure you can hide things pretty well. Secret meetings, late night…
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Whoever said ignorance is bliss has never been on the betrayal end of an extra marital affair. Granted, not all of us are blindsided by the revelation of our spouse’s unfaithfulness, but sometimes only in retrospect do we recognize how…
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If it was a very good and loving partner, telling him/her that you are having an affair is going to be very hard.  Affairs happen in the best of relationships-sometimes a casual conversation with the opposite sex can lead to…
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As a product of a single parent home and a single parent divorced because of cheating, I can definitively say that cheating is never beneficial. So many lives are affected by the single act of cheating so much is lost…
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Does any of this sound familiar to you? We’re just friends; She understands me; I really didn’t mean for this to happen; We were drinking and then one thing lead to another. Truth is, long before you find that hotel…
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Women have affairs just like men, because they can. Men, have forever adopted a primal stance when it comes to relationships and marriage. The animal instinct takes over and the need to mate with as many females as possible is…
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“You’re writing something on infidelity? Well on the people who commit it or the people that have had it done to them?” I state blankly at my mother, “Good point.” I reply curiously. My mother really did have a good…
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I will not be surprised if you disliked me after reading this article. But hopefully, you will see a little sense and maybe, throw me a coin or something when you find me begging for food on the streets. And…
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Falsely accusing a faithful spouse of cheating is no small matter unless cheating has been a problem before; in which case the falsely accused spouse is simply reaping the consequences of past sins. When people betray the trust given to…
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Jumping out of the frying pan, and into the fire will only get you burned. You’d better think long and hard before making such a decision. My opinion is, never do it in a million years! You are inviting nothing…
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Your married to your man for many years and your life consists of nothing more than serving your husband and your children and your needs get put on the back burner. Life gets routine and your husband doesn’t even see…
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Unfortunately many people struggle with jealousy in relationships. This usually happens because they cannot understand why their partner would want to be loyal to them. These individuals usually have had problems in the past with a partner cheating on them…
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