There are many ways to avoid the costly mistakes that many people make when they start the internet dating process. These tips will help you avoid any early setbacks. If you do make these mistakes it can really ruin anything…
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The new love you have found in someone who is so completely different in everyones eyes but yours. The beauty of their dark skin, the shape of their eyes, or the texture of their hair. Is it a question of,…
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We’re afraid of the answer to that question, to really know just how much women want it. Do you honestly think that everything is about a woman having that deep soul connection with a man, of course not. There are…
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The old song Breaking up is hard to do, is very true, but eventually the time comes to stop grieving for a lost love and start thinking of finding a new companion. There are a host of reasons to start…
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I can tell you from my experience on various dating sites over the past several years, not contiguous but all too regular, there are tips to get higher views and better response when messaging someone. If you have absolutely no…
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One way to avoid emotionally unavailable men is to lock yourself away behind closed doors. You would be safe for a while, but you never know when the Fed-ex man or furnace repairman will show up. The way to avoid…
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The Pitcher Theory Hello, my name is Paul I am a 34 year old “Swinger”. I have been open to the idea of swinging since before I was 16 and not because I practiced it I just considered it natural….
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As I’ve stated elsewhere, I strongly believe that on-line dating is the best option for older singletons – because our modern society makes it hard to meet a wide enough range of potential partners anywhere else. Having said that, on-line…
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I’m not sure that is the true question. I think the true question should be, is love worth the pain and suffering to find the right person. I think love is totally worth it, I’m just not sure that all…
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What to Do Before Seriously Dating Have you ever rushed into a serious dating relationship only to find out that you made a huge mistake? You are not alone. It has become more and more common for people to just…
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There’s a line in the marriage vows about ‘for better or for worse,’ and the best way to be a friend to your lover is to enact the ‘for better or for worse’ concept from the moment you decide he’s…
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THE ONE Do you believe there is one special person,”the one” for each and every one of us?Conversely, do you think that it is more likely that many special people come into our lives, to share, love and learn? Are…
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How exactly do you classify the term “Mr. Right”? It could be construed several ways: Mr. Right now, the man who caught your eye from across the room, the man who can’t take his eyes off of you, the man…
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Nobody wants to get hurt and that is why people are afraid to allow love into their lives. When you open yourself up to someone completely and let them break down all the walls you have built around yourself, it…
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We’ve all seen the romantic scenes in the movies, like Big Fish, where love at first sight makes time stand still. Love, described as a warm affection for another, is often associated with nervous feelings of butterflies fluttering, red roses…
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Falling in love, is it a positive thing? The literal meaning of the word fall implies vulnerability and a process that is involuntary. What it does not imply is a feeling that is long-term or permanent. Falling in love is…
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Plato’s character, Aristophanes, had a theory that people originally had two faces, four arms, and four legs. Zeus saw how powerful they were, and in fear, and in order to humble them, he split them so each person only had…
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As a child, my friends would fantasize about their dream weddings, and even as a young adult they would paint their future similar to most others: Get married, have kids, grow old. They would discuss what kind of parents they…
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Is love really worth it? What a question! Unfortunately, I understand where it comes from. Anytime you love someone it involves trusting that person with those feelings. Sooner or later, and usually more than less, someone is going to step…
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I used to believed that all men were emotionally unavailable, but the truth may be that we women tend to be too needy. It seems that we can actually create an emotionally unavailable man by making these mistakes. 1. Fairy…
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Romantic relationships are some of the most special ones in the world when they’re successful. When they fail over time, they can be the most painful. The goal for most of us, then, is to avoid the failures and engage…
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I’d seen her in a million dreams. Every time I’d close my eyes there she was, but now here she was standing next to me. She was the one that I could talk to almost whenever I wanted. The only…
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If you ask a man what makes him feel good, you may get a simple answer like, “Mom’s apple pie or the comforting smell of cinnamon”. The expression: The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach does have…
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OK, so let me state my opinion clearly, you don’t have to agree with me. It may not be the best idea to hook up with your ex. You need to remember that they are an ex for a reason….
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In this post 911 world of Twitter, Facebook, and Bloggers, and online dating it’s hard to deny that the world is becoming increasingly smaller. These technologies have embraced and validated the six degrees of separation. Two years ago,…
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Feeling lost between 2 people, are both lonely and dangerous.Confusion sets in and you loose any kind of reality that is supposed to be second nature to you. Your mind is oblivious to any kind of right or wrong and…
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I wanted to call this article “Dating over 40 – Wrinkles and Wobbly Bits”. As I’ve gotten older my ideas about love, relationships and dating have changed, evolved, if you will, into a plethora of mixed beliefs and misguided fantasies….
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Why do women attempt to make men jealous? When I think about this question, I have to make it personal to be able to answer it. Thus it becomes, why do I attempt to make any man in my life…
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The value of love- is love really worth it? Last weekend, my lover and I attended a movie and were slowly walking up the darkened isle toward the exit doors. It was pitch black and I could barely see in…
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I feel empty today. My motivation to do anything including my usual compulsion to write is not there. There is a reason for my sudden, apathetic state of mind my father’s words. As you might, or might not, be aware,…
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