Out of sight – out of mind or….Absence makes the heart grow fonder… Contradicting statements at best, but true in both cases depending on the two who are involved. I started my LDR (long distance relationship) in November of 2004….
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As a young woman I was often told that relationships are 50/50, with each person contributing 50%. This may sound fair, but even so, this idea is flawed because it leaves the opportunity for one person or the other to…
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Hit me with ya best shot I heard that old song by Pat Benatar the other day when I was driving around town. I remember when I was a kid I thought it was soo harsh. I hated those girls/women…
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All dates should be fun when you are in high school. If it does not sound like a fun date when you are asked, decline the invitation. A date should never be an adventure in self-torture. Most high school dates…
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Is your relationship true love or could it be just lust, and does it have lasting power to endure a lifetime? People often ask this question once they begin a new relationship, and unbelievably there is a simple answer for…
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There are those that go through life refusing to allow for the possibility of love out of a fear of getting hurt. They are afraid that if they allow their hearts to be open to someone for any reason they…
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The “art” of seduction may not always carry instant gratification sometimes you have to chisel away at your partner’s hormonal existence like Michaelangelo to a piece of stone. There are many ways to achieve your ultimate goal, and many different…
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Sometimes love comes when you least expect it and that’s the true reality. One mistake many people make is trying to find love or trying to create love out of a non-loving situation. When you don’t force a situation the…
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To truly understand an art form, one must first understand the mechanics behind that art form. To create a painting, for example, one must first understand brush strokes and colours. The same holds true for the art of kissing. One…
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A single parent is someone who has, adopts and is totally responsible for a child, (father or mother). Being a single parent doesn’t mean that all hope is lost for you in the dating world, it’s just a little break…
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Have you ever been sitting one the sofa next to your girl watching tv, thinking all is well, wondering what is for dinner and whether or not you’ll get to have sex that night and all of a sudden she’s…
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This truly is a good question, one that I am sure everyone has their own thoughts. We live in a time where the divorce rate is far higher than that of marriage, which is very sad. I am from a…
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When considering a potential mate, we as a society are very careless. Our society sadly, doesn’t look at the inner person. We look more for lost of money, nice cars, nd good looks. Although many people have found that certain…
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The first rule of dating at any age is to have personal boundaries. If you don’t have boundaries you will definitely have dating dilemmas. You should always take time to heal from previous relationships before starting any new ones. Have…
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Dating when your single and no children yet is impossible, imagine dating with the little ones around. The first thing on every single parents mind is will they be alright for or around my child or children. It’s so important…
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If you are fortunate enough to be near a beach, then you should consider it for the location of your date. There are a number of reasons why this is a great place for such an outing. It is romantic…
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A true love is not blind. In fact, it brings us closer to reality. It widens and broaden our mind and helps improve our vision to harmonize ourselves with the realities of the world. The person we love is acceptable…
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Letting someone know that you like them is difficult and scary. You want to do it in such a way that it leaves you an out so that if they are not interested, you can still save face and pretend…
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Love is blind, or I should say the thought of being in love can turn us blind to our mates serious flaws. It’s important to know when a relationship is healthy and when to stay or when to get out….
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Seduction should definitely be considered as one of the finest art forms known to humanity. I will soon provide fifty-two delectable suggestions. A different one for each week of the year. Some are simple snippets of seduction; while others are…
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You’re in your mid-thirties, have two kids, and are divorced. You feel that it is time to jump back into the dating game but after being married for so long you’ve forgotten what happens on a date. What’s worse is…
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“The Book of Love is long and boring.” – Magnetic Fields It can be very difficult telling the difference between love and lust. Unfortunately, our current language is inadequate to express all of the definitions for the English word “love”….
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Love has not limits or extremes. Love is a combination of all three: it is a feeling, an action and a choice. Love in the grammatical sense, first and foremost is a noun and in other senses, it can be…
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Building a successful relationship requires trust, hard work and giving your time and resources to the other person instead of yourself. These three most important steps in building a relationship will be hard at first and some days near impossible…
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“What is necessary for your happiness?” That was a question asked in studies that examined the effects of satisfying close relationships, either with family, friends, or partners in romantic involvements, according to David G. Myers’ “Social Psychology” published in 2005….
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How to Seduce a Man: Advice for a Real Woman Despite what you may see in movies, seducing a man is more than enticing him with lingerie and liquor. Seduction encourages an initial attraction to grow. It involves all those…
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Because the person you send to can’t see your face when reading the words you’ve sent them, it’s often difficult to convey romantic feelings to a loved one without sounding clichéd, corny, or just dumb. This is why it’s good…
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Whether you’re meeting someone from Lavalife for coffee or you’ve been set up by mutual friends, an open-minded attitude is the most important attribute that you can bring to a first date. Well, that and a few basic physical musts….
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The Path To True Love Lately I’ve been thinking a lot on what ‘real’ love is. I guess I’m now faced with a lifetime with a man that I think does not love me with that ‘real’ type of love….
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I used to have a three-page list of the attributes I wanted in a potential mate. The self-help book that inspired the creation of this list also encouraged me to be thorough. So, I had even gone so far as…
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