Dating

If we have to give a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’ as to whether cheating is ever okay, then as a person who values honesty, integrity and morals at all times and thinks it is wrong to lie, I must say…
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I think “falling in love” is the term I use when referring to uncontrollable feelings I have about someone.  I may not even know them longer than a month and I can’t stop thinking about them.  I don’t eat or…
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Is it ever a good idea to have an affair? I would say that it is never a good idea to have an affair. I don’t get why some people feel the need to double dip. If you are really…
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Setting a friend up with your ex can be a tricky situation if you are not fully prepared with the consequences.  While you may be full of good intentions by trying to fix your friend and your ex up, there…
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Commitment! It might as well be a four letter word to some men! Magazine covers are adorned with headings offering women insight on the male psyche. They boast ways to get men to commit, but these magazines can’t help you!…
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Are you living within one of those times of your life when you simply cannot find a loving relationship? Your friends are suddenly cold to you for no apparent reason and it seems to you that you are entirely alone…
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It’s always good to know if you’ve found Marriage Material, even if you don’t rush the M word in your new found or an older vintage relationship. Better to start at the beginning before you hit the bedroom to find…
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So you want to go out tonight in the pub or you are thinking to go to the mall to meet some women. However, there is a debate in your head how you will manage to pull the trick, you…
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It’s Saturday night. The streets fill to the brim with cars. Different destinations await the thousands of people who this very night have chosen to make themselves part of the most brutal, taxing game ever devised: dating. A game where…
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It is no secret that women are a very crazy, mixed up, and varied species of our race. But what do they truly want? And more importantly for men…. what is it that we can give them, and how can…
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A guy’s mind is a difficult thing to read, however a guy’s body language isn’t. Figuring out if a guy likes you involves a little bit of observation. For the most part, you know the answers intuitively – – even…
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Dating for the wrong reasons People date for many reasons, the main reason most date is to get out and have a good time with the person they’ve invited out, although, a whirlwind romance doesn’t hurt at all. Dating for…
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Is he a knight or,a jerk? A knight will perpetually demonstrate his desire and ability to perform three primary duties toward his ladylove: 1) PROTECTION. The knight will consider your safety and well-being first and foremost. He will feel it…
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Nothing feels worse than being lied to – – especially when the person lying to you is someone you care about. When the person you are with lies to you, it’s as though they’re stabbing a knife straight through the…
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Can lying affect the intimacy of a relationship? I’m a firm believer that lying in any relationship can affect a person’s feelings and put a doubt in their mind…thinking…hey, just how much has this person lied to me before? When…
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Power is a deserving thing, you can either take it or you can have it as a legacy. Men with great power are famous, respected, fear and listen. In this world where everything is sold, they are the only ones…
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Women have seduced, bewitched and befuddled man since the beginning of time.  She has been called a Jezebel, a snake, cunning, sly and even the devil, but with all of this, man is still trying to figure out what it…
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Yes, I am a firm believer that lying can affect the intimacy of any relationship. Honesty is always the best policy and can only bring two people closer together. I think that lying to another person with whom you are…
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Whether involved in relationship of friendship or romance, the connection formed between participants is the glue that holds the varying aspects of kinship in place. Without a personal connection on some level, there is little hope of any relationship lasting…
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There she goes again, in her usual spot. Every Friday night, Tameka is posted up like a thumb tack. Guys will flirt and fill her with drinks. She always willingly accepts. Her philosophy is that she needs a man to…
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When in a new relationship, a woman tends to see a man with rose-colored glasses. After the novelty begins to wear off, she may begin to ask herself, “Is he a knight in shining armor or a jerk?” Here’s the…
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From whence comes the purpose of anyone’s life? Does it come by choice, by chance, or by design? Whether that purpose is fulfilled, or not…there is a purpose for each and every one of us. When we choose our relationships,…
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Of course, every affair is different, as every person is different. However, under close scrutiny, there are elements common to most. Following is a cursory list of observations which the author has made. Every reader will probably wish to add…
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Superficially, age is used as a judgment call as to whether someone would be a compatible match, but it doesn’t make or break a relationship. Maturity and age are usually linked together but they should not be used interchangeably. Maturity…
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At one point or another in our lives we will be approached by someone who wishes to see us again, or wants to go out on a date. At some point in our lives, we will not want to see…
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Tips For Leaving a Controlling Relationship Controlling behavior in a relationship is often mistaken for love because the person who holds the obsession for you makes you think that he cannot live without you and loves you unconditionally. But possessiveness…
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How to learn to let go of a relationship which has ended One of the things that seem to be difficult after ending a relationship is letting go. How do you let go of a relationship? How do you say…
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It is becoming increasingly popular for both men and women to have affairs in today’s society; but is it ever a good idea to go behind your partner’s back? Despite the initial thrill of meeting someone new and the adrenaline…
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Stop trying to let go! The problem that many face in letting go of a past relationship is that they are trying to let go. The only way to move on with our lives from a past relationship is to…
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So you’ve been dating your sweetie for a while now and you’re thinking about taking the next step which, inevitably, people perceive as moving in together. So how long should you date before discussing this? My answer in the next…
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