This totally depends on what kind of “nice guy” you are talking about. If the guy in question is a genuinely nice person, then no, he doesn’t finish last, he comes out on top. But if we are talking about…
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What are men really thinking? That’s assuming that men ACTUALLY THINK. Assuming that they do, they use their noggins in an entirely different way than women use their brains. This article is not an opportunity for gender-prejudice, as of course,…
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If you’re familiar with the movie “The Graduate”, where a young Dustin Hoffman has an affair with the older and mature Mrs. Robinson, you may have a small grasp of why younger men sometimes like older women. The allure comes…
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Our thoughts, ambitions and accomplishments define who we are but more often than not, our desires are derived from years of social and media conditioning. I, myself, have fallen victim to unrealistic expectations in the dating world. This came to…
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‘Treat them mean, keep them keen’, how many times have we heard that saying? But is there some fact to this common theory. Is there a scientific formula to dating? Do men enjoy the thrill of the chase? Is it…
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Is this a true statement? Do boys ONLY look for physical beauty? If it is true, then why are there so many couples out there with a handsome man and a not so handsome woman? Men do look for beauty,…
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First of all, this is a question that can never be answered fully. All woman are different. No one woman will have every quality you want in a mate. In fact, every woman will have some qualities that you try…
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The significance of space in a relationship is a very important idea to understand. No matter the relationship, no matter who is involved, everyone needs time together and everyone needs time apart. It’s easily understood that people need to be…
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Men stay after the initial attraction when a person has something special to offer that no one else has. Sometimes it is a specific quality and other times it is a perfect balance of each. A person’s physical appearance is…
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Men and women are wired very differently and science has already proven that our brains are not the same. With no offense to men out there, men are very much like the animals we see in the wild kingdom. They…
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Women are taught from a young age that it’s good to express emotions and show signs that they care for another person. Little girls are rewarded for what may be regarded as romantic behavior. Making daisy chains as presents for…
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Let’s face it, dating can be confusing. Meeting someone you want to date can be difficult and then dating them in a positive, healthy way can be a whole new challenge. Many of us have spent countless hours with close…
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I would like to refute the argument that men are necessary by sharing with you some “Men-Related Emergencies” (generally involving spiders) myself and three other female housemates (Emma, Megan and Louise) overcame in the first week of living in our…
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What women really want in a man is companionship. As a woman it is a challenge to have someone of the opposite relate to you. Women tend to be more emotional in relationships, whereas men can go one way or…
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To be honest if nice guys always finished last there wouldn’t be the fairytales that give us all hope for true love. I have been with both nice guys and the alternative and let me tell you that if all…
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At what point is it time to bail out of a relationship? We often hear of relationships which start out bad but straighten out in the end. We even hear of relationships which start out good but then turn sour….
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People play games to keep themselves from getting hurt. There are no easy reasons for playing games. Everyone has there own reasons; we are all individuals with our own needs and desires. There are those that play games for fun….
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Hello! I am pleased to bring you this interview with Author Tariq Nasheed. Tariq Nasheed is a Best Selling Author who has written relationship books such as, “The Art of Mackin”, “Play or Be Played” and the New York Times…
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Women think men go for looks because they do. Men are visual creatures, so it’s in their nature to see first, think second and the sooner women admit this, the better off we will all be. It’s nice to imagine…
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Mr. Nice Guy. A term that has, somehow, become more of an insult than a compliment. Nice guys are too clingy, nice guys are too needy. Nice guys have no life, and nice guys are too sensitive. Well, ladies, as…
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No, No, and No. Men do not escape responsibilities nor do women. The matter is being aware of what the person wants in the relationship and the expectations of each partner or family member. Yes, more women today are self…
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The problem isn’t so much with the nice part; it is with the “too” part. The “too” part is where it goes from great to phony. I hate to stereotype guys into one classification or another, but there is definitely…
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It is not the modern day relationships creating these “Peter Pan” personalities, but they are probably offspring’s of hippy parents that were too self involved. How is it possible to think that a relationship started later on in life, can…
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We’ve heard it all before, usually by a guy trying his best to impress. “Nice guys like me are always last, girls go for the bad boys every time.” or “I’ve never heard of a nice guy finishing first before.”…
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The laws of demand and supply are relevant to all life’s situations, be it the market place for commodities or the quest for women. The law simply states that the higher the demand for a product (with the supply being…
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Yes, I do believe that nice guys can get out of the so called ‘freind zone’, by turning into an arrogant, self- absorbed loser. I have seen many guys, they at one time could have been the best person in…
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Game playing is a normal part of every relationship interaction. People play games for different reasons, but the primary purpose is to manipulate a thought or an action for the benefit of the person initiating the game. Most games are…
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I wouldn’t necessarily say that all men out there only look for physical beauty. There are about ten out there who care about personality too. I heard from a friend once that Darwin has a lot to do with this….
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When we hear the expression “modern day relationship,” While making reference to men in general, For me, it doesn’t make a lot of sense for a guy to blame what some may refer to as the modernization of societies acceptable…
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Do nice guys really finish last? Well as much as it pains me to say it, the answer is most definitely yes. Unfortunately, I am a nice guy at heart who is finally realizing after several years of dating that…
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