How to find someone who loves you and your pet? Depends greatly on the pet. If the new person in your life wants you to get close to their tarantula, snake or goldfish there could be many obstacles in the…
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I recently broke up with my boyfriend, for the third and final time, a month before Christmas, and it was a split that we both knew was coming. We had, very maturely, decided that we wanted different things and that…
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Trying to attract and meet women has been man’s problem perhaps since Adam met Eve. Now there was a match made in heaven, literally. Many men that consider themselves experts in the field of attracting and meeting women have put…
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JERKS VS. NICE GUYS It’s simple: Who does TV portray as more exciting, the guy who will make girlfriends gasp with envy and provide the hottest time or the gentleman who takes her to the movies and doesn’t even try…
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It used to be when you heard the phrase “fear of commitment,” it was men who were being referred to. A lot of men seemed to have a serious problem when it came to choosing one woman and settling down. But…
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Love is More Delightful than War There are those who love stubbornly. These are people who, no matter what, will follow where their hearts tug, despite repeated bad experiences. For both men and women alike, there are those who like…
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Since the dawn of mankind, men have been the protectors and providers. Today, that isn’t necessarily true, and many women earn more than their male counterparts. However, the same phobia exists, breeding fear in men about committing, even when they…
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Getting over your ex: Why every girl should have a break-up box It isn’t easy when there is a break-up with a guy you think is going to be around a long time if not forever. However, break-up’s happen and…
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It can be tough to get along with an ex-spouse especially if there were issues in the relationship or after divorce that have not been resolved. Sometimes anger and bitterness can make getting along with an ex-spouse almost impossible. But,…
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I have a great friend, let’s call him Jake, who is afraid of commitment. So he says, though he has lived with his girlfriend and loved only her for the past five years. “Isn’t loving someone commitment?” I question. “No,”…
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“Girl you must be tired, because you been running through my mind all day.” “Baby are you from Tennessee? because you’re the only ten I see.” Using elemntary school lines on a girl that looks like she just walked off…
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Through different social experiences, I have learned of cultures taking a much more lenient view of physical beauty than that of Americans. It is nice to think of a culture where the average male is looking for so much more…
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It’s true what they say; breaking up IS hard to do. However there are ways for a woman to cope and allow herself to move on with her life. The first rule of surviving a break-up is to pamper yourself. Take…
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The reasons for fear of commitment in men tend to lay in anxiety about control, abandonment and performance. When a man has a phobia to do with engaging in a serious relationship with a woman, he usually has what may…
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I keep on falling in and out of love with you Love is a hell of a state to get caught in, when it’s good it’s great, but when it’s bad its hell. But what do you do when the…
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Hi, Pinocchio here. I voted no, but actually, I am not sure I voted right. What I mean is, the term ‘nice guys finish last’ denotes that nice guys are the losers, right? Well, I know lots of people, the…
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From my experience moving in together can be a good thing. I have moved in and lived with 2 fiancees and been married once. All three times I was in love. The real difference is; leaving a difficult relationship is…
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OK, those of you who are still in denial, let me say it again, “he’s just not that into you”. I know I know, you have gone out with him twice, and he is so sweet, so romantic. He held…
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We all, at some point in our lives or our relationships, want to change the other. It comes at different times and from different circumstances. If we marry way to quickly, without taking the needed time to get to truly…
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A grandmother once said, “Life is short, unless you marry the wrong man, then it’s very, very long.” A mother seconded that, “Never rely on a man to take care of you, make your own money and take care of…
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There is a difference. Bridges carry us somewhere else where a balcony is a stable, reliable place where you can look upon the world, feel safe, and have fun. Bridges are traveling places; balconies are where you sit for awhile,…
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Ironic that we ask the question of why people play games, when everyone does it. No matter if you’re single or married or in a serious relationship, there are games being played all the time. We ask the question because…
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Do you really want to quit your job for a guy? If you are contemplating and or deciding to quit your job for a guy, that must be one heck of a guy. You must ask yourself this one question:…
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Cyber cheating is cheating because you are doing something secretly which you know would upset, offend and anger your partner if they knew. The fact that you know they would be upset by it proves you know it is wrong…
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We all need love. We want love. We crave love. We want to love someone – anyone and to be loved back. Perhaps we have been without love for so long. Then you meet you match that you believe will…
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This is from the source. There is really only one way to know if your man is no longer interested in you: if you are asking yourself if your man is still interested in you, then he is no longer…
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The human need to reproduce confuses me. As a 27 year old male I have no idea what it feels like to have a biological clock, a maternal instinct, or a natural affinity towards children. While I understand that these…
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Emotional cheating is where you feel a special bond with someone you are attracted to and very interested in but where there is, so far, no sex or physical intimacy. A good example would be where a married man is…
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I’m writing this from a mother’s point of view. Hold on a minute! It’s not what you think. Oh, I’m against moving in with your boy or girlfriend but for different reasons than I’ve heard before. My son’s girlfriend, who…
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Every relationship has its ups and downs. It’s important to keep that in mind. But there comes a point when the bad out weighs the good. Perhaps you’ve matured, but you don’t feel that the relationship has matured along with…
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