Your jealous ex- boyfriend wants to try again. He says he would like to make it work this time (just like last time.) You are tired, confused and out of ideas. You realize you can’t do this alone. It will…
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It is very important to know yourself otherwise you could be ambiguous in your choice of mate. Some people may say they want an independent-thinking, self-directed partner, who is successful in his own career’. In reality, they want someone who…
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People often say that it is difficult to make a long distance relationship work. Although this type of relationship can work, there are also risks involved in long distance love. The risks will not be off-putting to everyone, but it…
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A man walks into a store, searching for a gift at the last minute for his wife for their anniversary. He browses for an hour, attempting to find just the right gift, yet leaves the store empty handed, unable to…
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How do you tell if a boy likes you? Isn’t that the great mystery of the world? And yet most boys that i have met claim to be very simple and straightforward in expression of their emotions. You know what…
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If he seems too good to be true, he probably is. We tend to form this perfect profile of a partner in our minds. Often, we do not even realize this image is unattainable by more than 99.9% of people….
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If a guy acts too nice he might finish last in a race that requires patience. Most girls want a guy, from my experience, that is a sweetheart in bed but has the ability to be the “bad boy.” The…
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Women come in contact with Mr. Wrong in a variety of ways. Some of them are as follows; seeking men, projecting neediness, settling for men out of the fear of being alone, justifying wrong actions by men, being in the…
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You see and hear a lot of things about women who are looking for that special someone who might turn out to be the man of their dreams. In fact, you hear about it so much that it’s possible that…
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Relationships – either friend or more than that – always have some level of drama. Finding out that your special girl is secretly a lesbian is one of the most extreme examples of this. Here are some warning signs that…
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He seems perfect. He is sensitive; he says all the right things and knows how to keep the conversation flowing. Why then, is there a nagging sense that he is too good to be true? I’ve found that it is…
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Guys! I’m the nice girl! I’ve often agonized over if the nice girl finishes last, so from one “nice girl” to one “nice guy” let me drone on about what I’ve learned. I’ve always been the “girl next door.” The…
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“Tell me what you don’t like about yourself?” was the question made famous by character doctors Christian Troy and Sean McNamara on the recently retired FX television series Nip Tuck. While we live in a society that rewards beauty for…
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A life in which SHE – and SHE alone – decides what and who she wants; where, when, and whether she wants it; and why she DOESN’T want it! Let me explain: I moved to New York City because the…
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Women are emotional beings. “What do women want”? That’s a question that most men have had since the beginning of time. Most men think that women are the most difficult people to read. It’s not as difficult as you may…
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Ladies, it’s understandable the temptation to make excuses for the men in your life. This writer did it for years before finally understanding that this didn’t make her a better woman, it only made her a better doormat to be walked upon with every…
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Women want to be loved, respected, admired and complimented. Often. They want to be able to eat whatever they want without getting fat, to be lean without exercising and to have adjustable breasts so that they’ll be big when it…
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Many women find themselves making excuses for men. It is a part of their nurturing side, however men are men. They are strong enough to take responsibility for their actions. Taking up for them every time they make a mistake…
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Long distance dating relationships and long distance marriages are increasingly common. However, physical distance poses certain risks to these relationships. In my more than thirty years of experience as a psychotherapist, I’ve concluded that these risks vary in quality and…
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If you believe movies, men need a hot and confident, preferably blond porn star who drinks beer, watches football and loves all of her partner’s friends. Naturally, reality tends to be somehow different. When it comes to love and relationships,…
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“The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence” is a proverb depicting mankind’s insatiable appetite for something better than they already have. What it really boils down to is a lack of appreciation. Too often we…
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Attraction between a man and a woman can be based on many things, and it’s not just physical. If you’re trying to get the attention of a special lady, it may serve you well to know what things she may…
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The Single Girl’s Guide to a Sassy, Sexy V-Day Break out the fancy lingerie, buy a new perfume and pop some champagne. You’re fabulous. You’re confident. And you’re single. Being single on Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to mean moping around…
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It’s not always easy to spot a “bad guy.” Most of them – upon first glance – look normal, talk normal, and even act normal. They’ll hold the door open for you, chew with their mouths closed, and happily buy…
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There are a combination of reasons why some men choose not to marry. They include, fear of commitment, distorted view of marriage, financial factors, past experiences, attachment issues, and because they have access to the advantages of marriage without it….
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From kindergarten through high school, guys seemed downright mystical. If a guy looked at me cross-eyed, I wanted to alert the press. I wondered, “Does he like me? Was that just a twitch? Who is this person anyway?” Growing up…
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Blink. That first impression of a person is everything. So what is the first impression constitute of? 60% physical appearance, and 40% all other things like you attitude and what that person is doing at that time: reading a book,…
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What is an age gap? You can have a one year age gap two years etc but this is not generally classed as an age gap so when does it become an age gap 5, 10, 15 years. Or does…
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How to know if a guy likes you… Well of course this topic is very broad and there can be many a ways to know if a guy may like you. For starters is listen for all the compliments they…
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I had a conversation with a friend of mine yesterday about how people have no clue about romance anymore. Now, anyone that knows me knows that I’m a hopeless romantic dreamer. I believe that true love exists and I believe…
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