September 9, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Is there really a way to split household chores equally? There is certainly a need for teamwork and negotiation. It may be a little unrealistic to think about it as equally. It is absolutely a good idea to have it…
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September 9, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Even the most amicable, friendly, well thought out divorces come with changes and complications. There are many ways to find peace, happiness, and the gift of forgiveness after the paperwork and legalities are completed. An important relationship has passed away….
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There are some sayings that just stick in your head and seem to be a reoccurring theme in your life. I have one of those sayings that often pops up. I don’t recall where I first heard it and I…
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So, you were totally in love and one day your partner turned into a mean, vindictive, abusive monster. In response, you did and said things you are not proud of either. Something wonderful changed into something angry, nasty and completely…
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Being a caregiver is a tough and often unrewarding job. The people they are caring for may be too ill and unstable to give them the feedback and thanks that they need and deserve. Caregivers, whether professional of family members,…
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“Honest criticism is hard to take, particularly from a relative, a friend, an acquaintance, or a stranger.” Franklin P. Jones. No one enjoys being criticized. However, the only growth that someone experiences comes from change. Often-times, criticism can be one…
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August 30, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
A marriage can be fixed if both parties are willing and want to do the repair work. It comes down to some fairly simple principles. Simple to say, perhaps harder to accomplish. Live in the present and give each other…
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You can choose your friends yourself, but your family is a gift from the Creator. So how come it is so hard to treat all family members with love and respect? No matter how picture perfect the family appears from…
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Families are a unique melting pot of individuals. Parents do their best to love each child equally. With that being said, each child has unique needs and relationships with each other and their parents. There are a lot of family…
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The purpose of dating is getting to know each other and determine if you want a friendship, a romantic relationship or no relationship at all. There are a lot of other things that get in the way, and yet that…
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Everyone has been in a situation where they were uncomfortable with the direction a conversation was moving. It can happen in all facets of life. It may be a politically incorrect conversation in the workplace. It could be a touchy…
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August 16, 2013 Friends and Peers
No one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. In general people tend to expect their friends to be understanding and forgiving. Sometimes friends become so familiar that they forget that care is needed to keep relationships in good shape. Things can…
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August 16, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Marriage is not easy. People change. Couples grow apart. Sometimes the only viable option is a a divorce. Oftentimes partners don’t reach this conclusion at the same time. In fact, there are times when “the other half” is terribly shocked…
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August 15, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Some marriages have struggles that seem insurmountable. They can be torn apart by vicious and negative behaviors or worn away by lack of care. The decision to divorce is not an easy one and it is not without its disadvantages….
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August 14, 2013 Relationships and Family - Other
Relationships can be complicated, in fact, most are. People don’t simply choose the person they want to marry out of the blue. It more often is a series of circumstances. They meet, struggle, have great joy and eventually may marry. Some…
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August 14, 2013 Relationships and Family - Other
Happiness is an interesting term. The textbook definition does not truly cover the terms that surround the word. Happiness is more about your personal belief and perception than the actual circumstances of your life. Two people can experience the exact…
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Building a viable relationship with your father-in-law makes good sense. As the parent of your spouse chances are you will spending time with the man. It is best to establish an individual and personal relationship based on mutual interests and…
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Life is all about changes and transitions. Parents invest years in teaching their children and preparing them through many transitions. Savvy couples will use those same skills to prepare for the transition to an empty nest. They won’t be standing…
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Family meetings can be beneficial for everyone, and children who experience family meetings their entire life are much better prepared for life and what is ahead. It can not be just any family meeting, it has to be productive, respectful and…
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One of the greatest things about living in this day and age are the opportunities for our children. There are a wide variety of sports teams, clubs, cultural events and options that they can take advantage of. There are school…
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Blended families and non-blended families face many of the same issues with getting along and working together. The blended family has a few more players, but often the dynamics are similar. Whether you come from, have a blended family or…
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Mother and son relationships are unique. Moms are in a great position to help their little boy become a strong, independent, thoughtful, loving, successful man. It doesn’t happen overnight and you can wait until they are 15 years old to…
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It would be a pretty safe bet to assume that most teenagers have heard from a parent these words: “You know better than that.” The parent is referring to that unwritten code that they have been teaching the child their…
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August 11, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Partners do not get divorced because they are able to work together, treat each other with respect, keep emotions under control and create a loving environment. When couples choose to divorce they should learn to co-parent so they can quickly…
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August 10, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
A marriage is designed to be a long term relationship. It is a serious commitment. Partners who treat their marriage like an important investment realize that they need to protect it. The relationship must endure shifts in interests, aging, emotional…
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August 10, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
Till death do you part can be a very long time. Marriages that last do so because couples watch for the warning signs and take action to bring things back on track. If life was completely carefree where would the…
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When a loved one passes away there are many decisions that have to be made. In best case scenarios the deceased has let his or her wishes be known and those are respected. It may be that cremation is the…
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August 8, 2013 Friends and Peers
Friends are complicated. Some friendships thrive on competing. Other friendships are glued together by a common drama. A friendship can be someone who is needy and someone who needs to be in control. The point is that all friendships are…
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August 7, 2013 Marriage and Divorce
You can fix a broken car, a plumbing problem, a hole in the roof and even a broken leg, It may take special skills, a lot of money or extra help, but all of those things can be fixed. However,…
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August 6, 2013 Relationships and Family - Other
Just hold on a minute. Friendship not a bad thing, even in a marriage. In fact, for many the goal is to marry their best friend. Who else would you like to spend the rest of your life with? So…
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