Love Relationships
Love and fear. Fear and love. Which comes first? Do we love first, or fear first? Do we love first, and then fear this very loving? Or do we fear first, and then miss out on some of this love?…
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Author Archive: Steve Marshall
How to Shine forth from your Truth instead of trying to be it by Imposing it onto others
October 31, 2015 Communication
How to shine forth from your own truth, instead of trying to be your truth by imposing it onto others is a hard thing to learn. Love creates experiences between you and others in order to teach you aspects of…
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Why Marriage is so Hard
October 3, 2015 Marriage and Divorce
Marriage is hard primarily because we make it hard for ourselves when we don’t have the courage to be ourselves. We are afraid to be ourselves as we think it will affect the marriage. So we always try to be…
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Fear of Commitment
Why is it you have trouble with commitment and decision making and then are also never contented with what you’ve got or what you am doing now or what life seems to give you. Are they connected, contentment and commitment? You may be always questioning…
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Relationships Compromise or Change
Compromise is the answer to perfectionism, you have to compromise to go forward. You have to go forward for any chance of reaching the perfection you seek. So make a decision, try it and see if doors open or not;…
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How to tell if it is Shyness or Disinterest in a Person
Everyone is shy at some time, or another within their lives. There are some who deny their shyness, and others who will accept and embrace it. Shyness always affects your relationships. Shyness can either be your strength, or your weakness….
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The Power of saying no
There can be power in our words, or they can lack conviction. This means that some words carry power inherently within them, but if we do not match this power with our own conviction, the word as we say it, will…
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Fearing Love is only not Loving Fear
Fear is replaced with love by letting it all go and by realising that it’s mostly only an attitude that can be changed only by love. What can I do to turn my life around, take charge of my life,…
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How to Communicate a Sense of Personal Power
Loss of personal power is largely only a loss of yourself. You become fragmented within, and this then causes you to lose your own power. The holding of any such fear based doubts about yourself, always shows up in the…
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How to Interpret Good and Bad Vibes
Every communication at its most fundamental level is an effort to connect to the love that is in another person from the love that is within ourselves. It is the same with vibes. All vibes originate only ever from love….
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Is Communication the Key to Overcoming Obstacles
Does communication make obstacles, or does it help to overcome them? What is real communication? How come miscommunication, and misunderstanding sometimes only escalate our problems, and contributes to them growing more problematic, and frustrating for us? Life is communicating itself…
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Truth Hearing Truth Listening to Truth Truth is Love
Truth, hearing truth. Truth, listening to truth. Truth is love, loving truth. What is truth? Do we want to hear it? Does that imply that there is existing somewhere out there, an independent truth that we can indeed hear? Or…
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When you Push too Hard for the Truth
Pushing too hard for the truth is like trying to take one side only of an argument, and thinking that that side is the only right side. The truth is that there is usually truth on both sides. Nevertheless though,…
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Learning to take Responsibility for your own Behavior
Responsibility, it’s been said, is your ability to respond. You have to respond in some way to all aspects of your life and everything in it and what happens in it and even everything that is happening to you in…
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Bare Basics of Truth Love and Life
Every person’s ideas or thoughts on what is truth and what is perfection and even what is love is exactly correct for them in the moment. This is so until they receive a new experience and garner new perceptions and…
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How to Love Difficult People how to Deal with Energy Draining People
There are people in our lives who we have all probably noticed drain our energy in some way or another. Sometimes this is quite obvious as we will feel it right away, and at other times it happens rather subtly…
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How to Improve Communication in a Relationship
A relationship is built on and from communication. We do not have a proper relationship with anyone, if we are not meeting this most basic of requirements. Communicating is far more than just being restricted to being verbal. To improve…
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The Art of Communication Basic Principles of Effective Communication
What is good communication? Can it be learnt from abiding by certain principles, or must it be rather caught by us, when we move along our spiritual journey and life path enough that we grow more aware? With this added…
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The Benefits of Assertiveness
Assertiveness is not so much defending anything however, as it is more about showing the other person that you too have ideas that can be listened to, because you too are soul and are valuable in your own right. The…
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Body Language the Art of Nonverbal Communication
Is body language an absolute guide and is there any fundamental truths in it? Is it really related to our soul in any way or just to our mind, and so to our conscious and subconscious minds and lower bodies,…
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Improving Communication Skills in your Life
When communication is based on trying to win over another true communication is always lessened. This is because at the bottom of all outer communication is a wish to win out and have the way of themselves fulfilled. The inner…
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Understanding why People Lie
The only reason that people lie is, because they think that it doesn’t matter. Everything matters. Why do people tell lies, and what real consequences does this have for them? Lying is based on a phenomenon called artificial fullness. This…
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How a Persons Handshake Determines their Personality
If you are a man like I am, it is most likely that your father has probably told you the benefits of having a strong and a firm handshake. Our father’s will usually tell us that building a firm handshake…
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When Expectations become a Trap
February 17, 2015 Communication
Expectations in life to me are the same as wanting something from life. By wanting we expect to get it. And if we don’t get what we want, we grow frustrated, annoyed and fed up with our life. But perhaps…
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Mastering the Art of Aloneness
I have never thought much about mastering the art of aloneness before. Is aloneness after all only an art? Or is it more a state of being that we approach, when we turn our loneliness into aloneness? My main aim…
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Fighting Aging with Antioxidants
January 22, 2015 Skin and Body
The aging process is said to come about from genetic defects being produced within the energy producing cells in our bodies. These cells regulate and monitor the energy consuming processes of our organs. Antioxidants are naturally occurring chemicals found within…
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Communication over Rated or under Rated
January 11, 2015 Communication
The act of communication itself is over-rated in the sense that it never does work unless the receiver is being receptive to it. This would then mean that they must have an understanding of your message that is not being…
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The different Ways in which People Communicate
November 21, 2014 Communication
Communicating our differences, is different than communicating from our differences. We are all different within similar ways. This is why different people have been categorised into being of various personality types. We all communicate in different ways, because we are…
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Self Communication and Affrimation
October 28, 2014 Communication
It is a part of our true nature within love to affirm ourselves. Self communication then should be a part of our own love in action. The first thing to change must be our attitude. We must develop an attitude…
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Secrets of Applying and Living from the Law of Attraction
October 27, 2014 Communication
Recently I had a very interesting experience that on thinking about it more deeply revealed to me the underlying secrets about the Law of Attraction. After going through this experience, my original question to myself was a simple one, why…
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