Author Archive: Gene Patterson

Confidence is the King of Dating.  All hail the king! Confidence is the single most important thing in attracting the opposite sex.  It is more important than good looks, money and any other factors you could care to imagine. It…
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Even in mythology nice guys finished last!  Maybe you have heard the tale of Sisyphus.  In Greek mythology he was doomed to an eternal struggle.  Every single day he would push a boulder to the top of a hill.  Every…
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What is it that instantly attracts a man to a woman?  Many guys see a beautiful woman and there is just “something” about the way she holds herself that makes them instantly attracted.  But what about women being attracted to…
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The things that many men DO NOT know about women is pretty vast; too many men are content to live within their own worldview and never really get to know and understand women.  This is really to their detriment.  Once…
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“I’m Milk, and I do a body good,”  Have you ever heard someone embarrass themselves with a horrible line like that?  Pick-up lines will simply not work most times.  It is much better to use opening lines which are much…
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It sucks to be shy.  Trust me, once upon a time I was there.  The gnawing fear in the pit of your stomach.  The sweaty palms.  The utter and absolute fear of rejection.  Yup, I have been there!  Having a…
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Unless you are an extremely naive teen or a clueless adult you usually know when a girl is flirting with your.  The hard part is to know how much is real interest and how much is just the girls natural…
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A long distance relationship can be a difficult proposition at best.   The stress is often not easy on either party.  Open communication is essential to keep a relationship healthy.  But is can be hard to walk the fine line between…
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If you are looking for great dating tips it really does not get better than learning the simple ways to impress and attract women.  Guys have been trying to be impress women for ages. Sometimes they can pull it off…
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Large differences in age can cause a lot of strain on a relationship.  The younger woman or man is often seen to be a “Gold-digger” and only out for the older persons wealth of influence.  The older partner is often…
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Want some tips for dating younger women? Many younger women, especially between the ages of 18-24 can be flighty and whimsical. They can also be incredibly romantic and passionate. To keep dating a younger woman you have to learn a…
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On-line dating is getting more and more popular these days.  It is a way to weed through a lot of relationships that would never have worked out in a search for the ones that will.  It is all about speed…
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Once you have been conversing on-line on an on-line dating site for a while, one of the natural next steps is to meet the other person face-to-face.  This is both a time for excitement, you wonder if they are going…
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Most people desire a healthy relationship.  Unfortunately many relationships are not healthy and balanced.  One partner is often a “giver” and the other a “taker”.  The secret to determining if a relationship is healthy is to find out where it…
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Being rejected sucks.  The long walk away from woman is one of the most horrible feelings a man can go through.  This is a time for honestly though.  Your pride is hurt.  I know!  I have been there.   You do…
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What are the personality traits women find irresistible in men?  The traits that can make a woman actually chase after a man.  The traits that make men seem irresistible. Many think that women want a nice guy.  And they do. …
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Do you want to learn to attract people online with ease?  If so you had better buckle down and learn how to write a good dating profile.  It is not easy, but it is incredibly important.  ♦  There are no…
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Once upon a time, on an Internet far far away, Internet dating was only for social outcasts and rejects.  That is simply not true these days.  There are literally millions of people who meet tons of women through online dating…
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Once it was only the desperate man who went looking for love online.  You could see them in their mother’s basement trolling for their latest victim… err…girlfriend.   Those days have changed, and changed greatly.  Many people these days meet people…
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What are the dating tips for men who are seeking women? They are a group of specific targeted tips to keep the chick you are seeing interested. Many girls will over time get bored of the man she is dating….
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There are many common things which attract men to women and women to men.  Some are completely obvious, yet people do not take action on these points and often and wonder why they have problems finding someone who is “right”…
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An average man can get just about any woman he wants if he knows a few tips for picking up women.  The reason for this is that many men are completely inept when it comes to picking up women.  If…
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What is the Alpha Male and how does he attract women.   Once you learn what an Alpha male is and get better at “seeming” to be one (or even become one) all the other aspects of being successful with women…
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Most guys are not good flirts. Many men simply cannot seem to help themselves, they go strait to inappropriate behavior, thinking it is “flirting”.  When these guys flirt they often stumble in one of three ways. WAY #1:     They come…
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Flirting is simple, powerful and fun.  Yet somehow men often screw it up.  We can come on too strong and freak a girl out or not flirt enough and have a woman lose interest.  Often the first issue is guys…
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Why spend hours trying to meet a handful of women when you can meet hundreds online. If you want to know how to seduce women you meet on the Internet I will try to make it clear and obvious on…
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Learn to flirt the Tony Montana way.  Perhaps you remember Tony and his 80’s movie Scarface.  Like many Latin men, Tony had a certain way with the ladies.  In this article I will go over the ways that Tony seduces…
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Confidence is king!  If you want to attract women being confident is more important than any other attribute. Women are attracted to men based primarily on personality.  Good new to us that women are a lot less shallow on average…
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Some guys will try to use the lamest pickup lines you can imagine.  Really they can go from really bad lines to even worse lines.   I will admit I have tried a few in my day, usually just for fun…
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