Author Archive: Ellis Hayford

Body Odor

Sweet Pickle’s and Dog Poop During Flag Football season, I could be heard chanting, “Go, Sweetfeet!”.  It was an affectionate nickname given to my son when he was 10 years old.  Ironically, it was not given to him for swiftness, but…
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Workplace Dating

Zealously typing away at  first quarter reports, something catches your eye.  Standing alone at the water cooler is a man or woman you’ve never seen before.  There’s something in the way they sip from a cone shaped cup that makes your heart skip a beat. …
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Intimacy Gap

Closing the intimicy gap in a marriage that has lost its closeness can feel like an overwhelming chore for many married couples.  At times,  the thought of being intimate may even appear as a fairytale; existing only for the lucky…
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Losing the one you Love

It’s a nagging feeling and one you can’t quite place.  He used to love that blue sweater you wore, but today he didn’t even notice you were wearing it.  His kisses, once passionate, have turned to small pecks on the cheek.  Worried,…
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Romance

Romance, a Love Affair Romance calls to mind those secret passions hidden deep within your heart; the thrill of a first kiss, the scent of cologne or perfume on your pillow.  It evokes a longing, an excitement.   Romance is a…
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Cheap Romance

Romantic dating doesn’t have to be expensive.  In a downturned economy, many couples find the idea of romance almost laughable as making the mortgage tops the list of money uses.  Romance has gotten placed on the back burner of the home fires…
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