Author Archive: Brenda Cruz

Overcoming Shyness

Shyness hurts. It’s a debilitating feeling when you’re anxious in social situations. People who are not shy simply cannot begin to understand the discomfort of this affliction. It is very easy for someone outgoing to say to a shy person, “don’t be shy –…
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The Task of Writing a Eulogy

Eulogies can be tough, awkward, stark, emotionless or too emotional. They may even seem like blah formalities. Sometimes they can leave grieving family and friends coming away feeling even more grief-stricken.  Personally, when I hear one, I hope to be comforted. I hope to enter into a…
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Is Chivalry Dead

Is Chivalry dead? Well, those who’ve been around long enough to remember what true chivalry is might say yes.Today, a watered down version of it does still exist but even that is becoming endangered. Chivalry originated from medieval times and once referred…
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