Divorce is the act of dissolving the relationship between two people, who at one point in their lives, valued each other enough to promise to love, cherish, and honor until death. How is it then, millions of people who are…
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Nobody plans on getting divorced, and, when children are involved, things are worse.  If there are no children involved, once the divorce is finalized, you can move away and you don’t have to worry about your ex.  If you have…
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Divorce can be stressful for everyone involved, even more so for the children who don’t have a say in what is going on.  No matter how much you hate your ex, you need to love your kids more.  How you…
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No one ever wants it to happen, but then it does. Before one knows it, he finds himself being served legal documentation stating that his (now) ex girlfriend or wife has decided to file for parental rights. He is presented…
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A highly controversial topic. Should a child be able to decide who to live with after the parents have divorced? While it is not ideal for a child to feel as if they have to choose between parents, their input…
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There is probably no harder situation for a child to deal with than the divorce of his/her parents. The transition of divorce can be very challenging for a child to resolve in his/her mind. They don’t understand the cause of…
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Yes, but only when this continuation of marriage will benefit the well being of the children. To really find out if a couple should stay together for the children, they first need to figure out the reason for the separation….
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When you are standing at the alter you really never even think about the possibility of having children and then someday getting divorced do you? The wedding day is supposed to be the happiest day of your life. Then you…
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As a whole, we humans have a tendency to be very adaptable and resilient. It’s probably one of the bigger reasons why we haven’t become extinct. But just because we have the ability and the skill to overcome great obstacles,…
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Dealing with a divorce is hard enough for the parents. When your kids are involved it is so much harder to make decisions. If you’re a caring parent, your first priority will always be your children or child. No matter…
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This response to the question of a father’s equal custody rights is a yes. The arguments are plain and simple. The court/judge should decide what is in the best interest of the kids rather than let gender decide against a…
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It can be very difficult to deal with the situation when your ex’s new boyfriend or girlfriend interferes with custody and visitation issues.  There are different steps that you can take to deal with these, and you may want to…
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The aftermath of divorce can be devastating for you and your children. Having to cope with all the travails and encumbrances from an environment of two –parent home to setting up a second home with and for your children, would…
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Unfortunately, divorce rates continue to rise nationwide. Ideally, responsible parents will sit down and commit to being cautious, and sensitive to the needs of their children, while proceeding with divorce procedures; however, more often than not, child visitation problems do…
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Few events are as devastating as your children rejecting you after divorce.  Sometimes it seems as if nothing you do can get through to your children.  The following steps may help guide you through this time. Take care of yourself…
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Yes, a parent should tell the children of the spouse infidelity for two main reasons. First, it affects the children because infidelity usually leads to a divorce or to a separation which changes the child’s life forever. Second, if the…
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When trying to process information or an opinion on this matter, it does well to realize that there are two fundamentally different aspects to weigh up in the prognosis. These two are called male and female. They are as different…
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Often the unintended casualty of a divorce, children have the most difficult time dealing with the dissolution of their parents marriage. Most responsible parents go out of their way to shelter their children from the strife and conflict that ultimately…
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Divorce can be an unsettling and frightening time for families and children. To a child, their family often represents safety and security as well as a place for nurturing and love. A family provides a large part of the child’s…
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Over the years, countless numbers of couples have stayed together for the sake of their children. Often times this may seem like a good idea and may seem like it is what is best, but this usually isn’t the case….
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I have always thought of “being in love” as the happy state that we first find ourselves in when we finally meet that special someone. You know how it feels. You get a sickening lurch in the stomach each time…
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Statistics show that about 60% of marriages in North America end in divorce. Many of these once-married couples had at least one child while they were together. Most divorces are saturated in hate, anger, resentment, distrust, pain, guilt, love, and…
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Saving a marriage with financial planning? Yes you can save your marriage with financial planning, it’s one of the keys to success in most areas and marriage is the rule rather than the exception. You will have so many expectations…
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Making the decision to end your marriage is never an easy one even though it may simply be the one that is best for everyone involved. One of the most important considerations during the divorce process will be your children….
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Financial planning can save a marriage because it allows the spouses to see what the major stresses really are that are oppressing them. It allows them to take equal blame and responsibility for the finances. Sometimes the combination of lack…
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Nobody talks much these days about “illegitimate” children. A child born to an unwed mother is just as valid as one whose parents are married, especially since there’s no law of primogeniture (eldest son inheriting) in this society. To be…
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Oh My God! You must be kidding. What lunatic actually believes that cheating can actually SAVE a failing marriage. At best, if the marriage is unsalvageable, it will be the final decapitating chainsaw blow to the head of a zombie…
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Change can be a difficult and challenging experience for children. The separation of their parents can have many devastating effects on children, no matter what their ages. Preparing for this event requires some patient and careful planning. These steps can…
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