As women we look at ourselves through a highly distorted and dark mirror. We are rarely allowed to love ourselves as who we are – we are always taught that we must look younger, more beautiful and in our culture…
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Whenever a person finds someone new, the pertinent question that he asks himself is, “Is this love or lust that I’m feeling?” It seems as though our uncertainty is encouraged through our natural fear of rejection, dejection, and commitment. If…
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Obviously there is much more to a relationship than money. Yet, money is an inescapable part of married life. Therefore, it would be wise to seek a compatible partner who is a good person who at the same time is…
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Do the targets of your flirtations often vanish while visiting the restroom? Are the regulars at your favorite bar becoming regulars somewhere else? Are the pages of your Little Black Book filled with wrong numbers? If you answered yes to…
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Low self esteem can severly hinder the progression of a dating relationship, and in some cases can even end them. Having low self-esteem is like having a group of people with you 24/7, constantly pointing out your flaws and problems….
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Chatting on the internet with someone you find interesting, can be enjoyable for some. To consider this as being a real relationship would be naive. In cyber space people can be anything their imagination can dream up. A couple needs…
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Any number of reasons and circumstances may result in an elderly person becoming a part of the dating scene after a long period of absence. Often widows and widowers trying to find another little bit of happiness in their lives…
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Desire can be deadly! I think men are to blame when gold diggers exploit them because they put everything out in the open. It’s like a bag a candy for the candy eaters to come and get. Since the beginning…
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Signs of a verbally abusive relationship can include sudden and sharp remarks that go beyond the sometimes usual bickering and remark-tossing in a relationship.  In an abusive situation, such remarks can be far more hurtful, acerbic and mean-spirited.  There is no…
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Night clubs are a unique environment unto themselves. The rules are a little different in night clubs than they are for meeting women out in the general public. For one thing, every woman’s guard is up at the club.  Many…
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For many generations, women have been raised to seek men who could take care of them financially.  For the same amount of time, men have been raised to work hard and establish themselves so that they can take care of…
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If the subject is only playing around the online ground without meeting person to person. Then it’s an absolutely “No”. Everybody could have done this part, even though not to mention we need to fall into the commitment psychically. Do…
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True friendship within the relationship is the key to finding and keeping a love that is true. Rushing to find love means we might miss out on time to learn to trust the person you wish to have a relationship with. We are all…
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Yes, all men are cheaters, they are old babies, they cannot satisfy my feminine hunger, they ruined my life, they ruined what I could had always been dreamed of before I’m married to that dirty look… STOP! Wait a minute,…
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The butterflies are fluttering in your stomach and you are running your speech again and again as you walk towards her. She’s the one you want to take to prom, and this is the time when you will get that…
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So what is the story on inter-racial dating in America? I love when people still make snide remarks when they see an “inter-racial couple”. They say things like “Why can’t you date your own kind?” I have had that happen….
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Older men have that exciting and distinguished air about them that makes a younger woman feel like she has hit the relationship jackpot.  It is very easy to understand why many older men choose to date younger women; they are…
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When people talk about an age gap in relationships, they always seem to focus on the younger end of the spectrum; an eighteen year old and a thirty year old. OK. So it’s twelve year’s difference. However, by the time…
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Suddenly age becomes a huge issue: a man may be seeking somebody younger, a woman may be seeking somebody younger.  Seemingly, once the age of forty is crossed, dating becomes a whole new ballgame-although with the same pitfalls, setbacks and…
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Are online daters real couples? As an online dater, I would say yes.  I have been loyal to the same man, via online, for four years now and we are going onto year five.  Most would question if it is…
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You and your best friend have known each other since childhood. You share everything, namely the same values, respect for each other’s ideas, opinions, beliefs, hopes and dreams. You may not always agree with each other, but your friendship has…
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Every time my older brother calls me I pretend not to hear him correctly. Huh? What? When? It’s gotten to the point where sometimes he sounds like a broken record. If it’s not pranks or jokes I’m doing, it’s annoying…
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If you’ve ever engaged yourself in the “singles” scene, then you know that bars and nightclubs are one of the primary places that single folks go looking to meet new people and hopefully snag themselves a date.  While the general…
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The worst sign that you can get on a date is that he or she is bored. While it certainly is a blow to our self esteem, it does not have to be a death sentence to the date or…
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Knowing when to dump your boyfriend can be difficult simply because when we feel we are in love we put on those rose colored glasses. Everyone wants to be loved and to love someone so this makes it hard to…
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Don’t let prom pass you by. If you really want to go to this special event with a date, you probably will want to start looking months in advance of your prom. Remember that the problem of finding a date…
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When people are looking for a date, the first place they head to is a bar. They are heading for a disaster right out of the gate. When you meet someone at a bar, you aren’t meeting the real person….
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YOUR PROM night is one of the most special occasions you are likely to organise in the coming years so it is important you choose the right limousine to get you there. There is a range of exciting and dramatic…
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Many years ago when I was still a relatively young man, singer Dean Martin used to croon this little ditty: “Somewhere there’s a someone for everyone”.  “Dino” packed a whole lot of thought and emotion into those very few words.  And…
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