Obsessive thoughts, often which seem to come out of nowhere and have no logic, are typically a side affect of another problem rather than an actual problem in and of themselves. Anxiety disorders, which show themselves in the form of…
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After spending years depending on my former husband for practically everything, from my self-esteem to my money, I was devastated when I learned that he was being arrested for some very serious crimes. Unbeknownst to me, the man I was…
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ABSOLUTELY NOT! The victims of rape are NOT and should NOT EVER be deemed irresponsible or at fault. More to the point, these “victims” as people and society have labeled these persons (whether they be male OR female) are just…
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When I die, I will be cremated. I don’t choose cremation for religious reasons, or for strictly financial reasons, although cost is a factor. It may seem a bit depressing, but after my father died I started thinking about my…
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Self-injury is a growing problem that is putting our youth especially in a high risk zone. It comes in many forms, with some of the most common being cutting, eating disorders, sleep deprivation, or drug/alcohol abuse. There are many other…
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I’m a mother, a wife & a daughter/caretaker – preferably in that order. And nearly everyday I am overwhelmed by the demands that my caretaker position places on me. When my 2 year old daughter was ill and admitted to…
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To understand PTSD you could do this. Imagine going through the day and being startled or panicked at least, ten times. Over simple everyday things like a car pulling up in the drive way. Or the dog barking. After these…
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The decision of abortion verses adoption as the best option should be a thought out process. I have known mothers who have opted for each side and the results have run a similar coarse. They have both agonized over their…
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“Ask What, Not Why”One very difficult part of life is that we sometimes face tragedy. The unexpected death of a loved one, the loss of a job when your finances are strained, or a terrible health diagnosis can shake even…
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Obsessive Thoughts……… The best way to deal with obsessive thoughts, is to start with where they come from, which is our old friend, Stress. All animals are born with the primitive Fight or Flight response, also known as “the acute…
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CULTISM IN UNIVERSITY OF BUEA Rumour has been living with us about strange happenigs in the university of Buea campus,such as there is a point at the centre of the school where a live sheep was burried in an ocultic…
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I’m sorry to say, but NO, you can’t prevent yourself from being a rape victim. There will always be violent, disgusting people in our society and no one can predict where or when they will attack. However, there are certain…
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SOUP, SEX AND SANITY – PART IV I’m a member of the Griffonettesat Woodburyour brothers are Griffonsthe Griffonettes help disabled veteransa Griffon asks me to go steadyI answer“I’m too young to go steady.”I will find my rootsbefore going steady I…
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Do you have your BOB ready? No I’m not referring to bring your own beer. I’m referring to whats called a bug-out bag! Its meant to be something you can grab quickly on you way out the door! Basically a…
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A dear friend of the family died as a result of stalking. The fear thatthe stalker instilled in her grew until it caused psychotic results. Ourfriend began to hear sounds that weren’t there. Every light that shonein her window, she…
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