Author Archive: Wayne Leon Learmond
Wayne Leon Learmond
October 1, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
Can cheating save your marriage? I am inclined to say that it can, in certain circumstances. But before I delve into that, let us delve into the question deeper, why do men – and indeed women – cheat? There are…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
September 10, 2015
Marriage and Divorce
When you are courting, everything is new, and couples cannot do enough for each other. Nothing is too much trouble, and couples will go out of the way to make their partners happy. However, once you are married, that is…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
August 22, 2015
Dating
Trust is the defining word that can make or break a relationship. Without trust, eventually everything else falls by the wayside, Love can wither and die because one or the other partner may never begin to forgive and forget and get…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
August 19, 2015
Friends and Peers
A true friend is one that does not turn a blind eye to your suffering. A true friend is one that will stick by you through thick and thin. In fact, true friends these days, are very hard to come…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
July 12, 2015
Dating
This is all to do with body language and not just intuition. By studying body language you can normally tell, instantly, and not just within 15 minutes, whether a person actually likes you or not. This article will state the signs that…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
July 1, 2015
Communication
In this day and age especially, conversation has become a lost art. This is shown clearly with the proliferation of Mobile Devices {such as Cell Phones} and this can also be connected with the rise of the Internet. There was…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
June 12, 2015
Crisis Support
‘Suicide is painless, it brings on many changes. And I can take or leave it if I please. And you can do the same thing if you please’. {Lyrics: Johnny Mandel and Mike Altman} So go the lyrics of the…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
June 12, 2015
Dating
How can you tell whether a woman likes you or not? What are the tell-tale signs that women give when they show an interest in you? This article will try and go some way into revealing the secrets of mental,…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
June 6, 2015
Friends and Peers
There is never an easy way to end a friendship – if there ever is such a thing as an ‘easy’ way. And, one has to consider many things before that important decision is made. Is the friendship of value…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
May 5, 2015
Dating
The reasons as to why people may be afraid to love again are numerous. Indeed, for someone to give their heart and soul to their partner, only to have them broken in two, can be one of hardest things that…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
March 14, 2015
Friends and Peers
One of the most terrifying things one must face in life – other than the usual, birth, marriage and death – is the problem of making friends. To the majority of people, the mere thought of this can send them…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
March 6, 2015
Style and Beauty - Other
There is a conundrum here, the prejudice that follows a woman in this world, if she is plus size {overweight}, is alarming. The prejudice is rife and runs within the very heart of society. Indeed, if this prejudice were aimed…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
February 10, 2015
Friends and Peers
The only way one can discover if a friend is a ‘true’ friend is if that person stays with you through thick and thin. A true friend is always there, offering a shoulder to cry on. A true friend offers…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
February 7, 2015
Communication
The thought of striking up a conversation with a complete stranger fills most of us with fear and dread. Of course, some people are confident in themselves, and forward enough to begin talking to somebody that they do not know…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
January 25, 2015
Crisis Support
It is harder to walk away than to stay. This comes across time and again as fear plays a part here too. In such relationships, fear rules the roost and can hold a person going through this situation like a…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
January 20, 2015
Dating
Jealousy within a relationship is down to one thing only…one’s own insecurity. Insecurity within a person, can ruin a loving relationship with your partner, and leave you bereft and lonely. Jealous feelings can be very hard to bare and, to…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
January 14, 2015
Dating
There is nothing worse than a partner that is too clingy. This can lead to intense jealousy of one partner toward the other. When a partner is clingy, the other person feels like they cannot breath. They feel that their every movement…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
December 16, 2014
Crisis Support
The stages of grieving are as follows: numbness, denial, anger/guilt, pining and yearning, depression and gradual acceptance of the death. The physical effects are: headaches, dizziness, a dry mouth, weakness, breathlessness, a feeling of tightness in the throat, or chest,…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
December 9, 2014
Dating
A lifestyle change. That is exactly what the BDSM lifestyle is. To the layman or woman in the street, BDSM means only one thing, the sexual dominance of one sex over another. However, sex, although an important part of the…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
November 17, 2014
Family
We get the society we deserve. Without rules within the family the whole of society breaks down. It is true that the type of society that is produced, begins with the family. From the moment that we are born, it…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
September 6, 2014
Skin and Body
Women carry a negative body image around because of what they see, read and hear within the media, model and fashion industry. These industries have a lot to answer for when it comes to a woman’s self esteem [or lack…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
August 27, 2014
Friends and Peers
In this day and age it is very hard – indeed rare – to come across genuine friends. In all walks of life there are people who are crying out for a friend, someone who will take the time to…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
August 11, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
There is no doubt at all that married couples should take time out for each other. Weekly dates are the perfect way to go about this. Married couples can get so caught up in the day to day chore of life,…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
July 30, 2014
Dating
It is indeed possible to be in love with two people at the same time. However, the stress and pressure of such relationships can, overtime, be the downfall of a person. The words here are ’emotional attachment’. When one is…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
July 26, 2014
Dating
One of the major reasons why a relationship may fail is simply because couples stop listening to each other, If couples paused, to really listen to what they had to say, then there would be a lot more understanding. Marriages…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
July 25, 2014
Dating
There is no end to Love, for how can there be when Love is never-ending? Love is the building block of creation. It is the starting point – the foundation if you will – of everything else that follows. For…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
July 12, 2014
Marriage and Divorce
The question has to be asked, was the human species meant to be monogamous? When one looks at other life forms – other than human – one can clearly see that monogamy is rare indeed in the natural world. Granted,…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
June 23, 2014
Family
Children, these days are spoilt – especially those in the West. Today’s society has made it so that they expect something for nothing. Gone are the days, it seems, when a child could leave school and walk straight into a trade…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
June 10, 2014
Crisis Support
Domestic and violent abuse is a terrible thing. It destroys not only the lives of those attacked, but can also be the destroyer of whole family units. This article is based on a very close friend of mine {and for argument’s sake…
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Wayne Leon Learmond
June 8, 2014
Crisis Support
Date Rape, Spousal Rape, College Rape, Gang Rape. Whichever way you look at it, rape is evil, wrong, and punishable under the full weight of the law. It comes a little under murder, but equal to child abuse, because the…
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