Author Archive: Jennifer Eblin

I was fourteen when I had my first breakup. I tried throwing everything related to him away, but my mom convinced me to put it in an old shoebox and leave it in the closet, promising that someday I’d want…
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When the ex and I called it quits, he jumped right into a relationship with someone else. The someone else was someone I had to hear about for weeks, thanks to a mutual friend that felt the need to call…
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My devastating breakup came when I was 25 years old. The man I loved, the man I thought was my soul mate and the man that I thought I’d spend the rest of my life with was suddenly gone. Not…
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At times it seems like everyone and their brother/sister has tried online dating and everyone has their own version of a success story. At the same time, they all have a story about something they did wrong or said wrong….
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In the world of online dating, safety is something that everyone should worry about. There are far too many horror stories about people meeting someone and being murdered or raped and tortured. There’s also the fear of being robber or…
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He comes out of nowhere, saying all the right things and doing all the right things. Though you’ve never met before in real life, you find yourself falling in love. Before long you’re rearranging your schedule and doing everything you…
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I have to admit that I have a lot of experience with Plenty of Fish, but it’s all been within the last few months. My friends all know that I tried the website and after I had a little success,…
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There are some people who might tell you that after a breakup, you should move on with your life and never think about the ex again. I’m one of those people, but I’m also aware of the fact that sometimes…
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It’s called the rebound relationship, or sometimes just a rebound. That first relationship you jump into after a previous relationship ends. You’re giddy and high on life because you’ve found someone that makes your life better and proves that you…
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The only way to get over one man is to get under another. That little piece of advice was handed down to me many years ago, long before I had even considered the thought of a rebound relationship. I’m by…
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The possibility of dating an ex is one of the hardest things you may go through. Not only do you have the memory of your past relationship hanging over you, but you also have the memory of its failure. Getting…
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It’s easy to say that you’re over an ex. You tell everyone around you that you’re ready to move on with your life, you may even start dating other people. Then, in an instant, that faint memory passes through your…
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The first night that you spend with someone is magical. You start with dinner where you naturally have a fantastic time. Then you head to your house where you exchange some wine, while sitting beside the fireplace. After that you…
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When I started dating my now ex-boyfriend, our friends just kind of shook their heads and laughed. They took one look at us and thought that there was no way we could ever make it work. I guess no one…
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Who can forget the love triangle between Kelly, Brenda and Dylan on Beverly Hills 90210? It was such a popular storyline that they even did a similar version on the update of 90210 where Brenda and Kelly both had feelings…
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Few things in life prepare you for the moment you discover your partner cheated. As soon as you discover the truth, you immediately fall into the denial trap, saying that you never saw it coming. In all likelihood, you saw…
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In a perfect world, no one would ever cheat on their spouse or significant other. Of course there would also be fireworks following the first kiss, just to make sure you realized you were kissing the right person. Unfortunately life…
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Technological advances have changed the way in which we date. There’s no doubt that ten years ago, we never expected to see cell phones sitting in the middle of a table. We didn’t expect to spend as much time on…
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My ex and I decided to break up. It was no one’s fault, just something that happened. I went a little crazy dating other men, trying to prove to myself that I didn’t need the ex in my life to…
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A sensual environment all but guarantees that someone will get lucky in that room. It’s all about the way things are arranged, the right colors and the right feeling. Even if you’ve never given your bedroom a second thought, you…
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Dating is difficult, especially if you’re not sure whether she’s really interested in you and playing hard to get or if she really is hard to get. You might talk about it with your friends, or just internalize things and…
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Me Tarzan, You Jane. We’ve spent centuries evolving and yet some men still seem to revert back to the behavior of their long forgotten ancestors, especially in regards to the dreaded “e” word, the e word being ex-boyfriend. Even the…
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Asking a girl to prom is quite possibly the scariest thing you’ll ever do, at least until you get out of high school. It doesn’t matter is she’s your girlfriend or someone you’ve been lusting at from afar, you still…
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