Author Archive: Carmel Brulez - 538252

It is a sad fact of life that no matter how much we may feel drawn to someone, or fancy them, they may not feel the same way about us. We can flirt, dress sexily, be available and fun and…
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There are lots of reasons why men are scared to commit to a relationship. Some are on the practical, material and financial level, others the emotional and spiritual level. One reason men are scared to commit is because they have…
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Surviving a long-distance relationship can be difficult for some and much easier for others. We expect certain things from our partner and one of these is to spend time with them. The best way to survive this is to be…
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A lot of men have a hard time commiting in a relationship. Sometimes this is for financial and material reasons, practical things. Other times it is because of emotional reasons. If the man owns a successful business or has a…
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Women are scared to commit to a man for all different reasons. It is, after all, a huge thing, a major change in your life. If the woman has been in a bad marriage or relationship in the past, where…
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Long term relationships are far better. WHY? Because you are putting a lot of time, effort and emotion into this relationship and it is mostly just wasted if the relationship does not last. Anyway what is the point to it…
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Lots of relationships become stale, boring, predictable, routine and samey after a bit. But having an affair is not necessarily the answer. The affair cannot go on forever and will not solve how bored you are at home, it just…
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Women can be scared of commitment for all different reasons. Some are practical, material and financial, but mostly they are emotional. If the woman has had a terrible experience in the past with an abusive ex partner she will be…
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Long distance relationships can work if the couple are compatible, patient and both work if both are willing to work at it. Let us assume that we are talking of two people who like each other, love each other and…
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You have been chatting to someone who seeks interesting, likeable, caring and honest. When do you meet this online love? Only meet your online love in person when you feel comfortable that they are seeking the same type of relationship…
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You have kissed or dated a lot of princesses who are not suitable,  and women who may be very nice but not the right one for a serious, committed monogamous relationship….  you now need to find Mrs Right.  Every man has…
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A lack of commitment can ruin a relationship. It makes your partner feel they are not a priority in your life, not really that important, and therefore they are just wasting their time with you. When someone feels their partner…
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You are asking for tips on dating a married woman. I wonder why you are bothering ! It is fraught with so many difficulties, so much sadness, so many problems, I can only assume you are a masochist. If you…
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I realise that some people do not feel comfortable with the idea of having sex before marriage, though it is becoming more and common to have casual relationships, one night stands, flings and short term relationships that include sex now….
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With so many Mr Unsuitables and Mr Wrongs out there, it can be difficult to find the best man for you, and it can be tempting to settle for someone who is unsuitable just because you are lonely, miserable or…
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Some women love men to dominate them sexually because they want to be able to relax, go with the flow and let someone else make the decisions. They love the idea of feeling weak, powerless and out of control and…
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There is a simple reason as to why men with great power cheat. It is because they can! Compare an impoverished, ugly old tramp who does not have a penny in the bank and lives on the streets walking from…
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Infidelity is when one person, who is in a monogomous relationship where they have promised to be faithful to each other, breaks that promise. They may or not be found out, but whether they are found out they have gone…
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Everyone has a different opinion as to whether or not age matters when choosing a partner. Quite often, you get a young slip of a girl who is barely out of school, let alone college, she knows very little about…
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In an ideal World, it would be great if every romantic relationship had begun as a friendship, but the way we lead our lives and the way we meet our prospective partners often mean that this is not possible. What…
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There are different kinds of cheating and affairs because there are different types of people. Let us look at the different types of affairs. * The travelling salesman, pop star or opportunist who is bored at home and has a…
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When people assume that age differences matter in relationships, it is because they assume that the older one of the pair is more experienced and knowledgeable about life and relationships than the younger one, but this is not always the…
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THE CHALLENGES OF DATING A MARRIED MAN When a woman dates a married man her biggest challenge will be that she has to contend with the fact that he is living with a wife who he wishes to or has…
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We can put forward all sorts of reasons as to why married men seek sex with single women. But as a woman who has been approached by a lot of unrealistic and hopeful married men for this purpose I can…
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If we have to give a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’ as to whether cheating is ever okay, then as a person who values honesty, integrity and morals at all times and thinks it is wrong to lie, I must say…
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FALLING IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN I have worked as a private relationship expert, life coach and therapist for many years. It is rarely the married man who gets upset when a woman falls in love with him, it…
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